Would you date someone with self harm scars?

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  • You think abandoning the lonely will help them? Thats why they die thats like saying "let that scuicidal child sit alone till they die they need to be alone" these people need our help and you are just going ti reject then like they have a plague? Thats pretty heartless.

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    • You clearly did not even bother to read my reply. I did not mention anything about leaving a self harmer isolated. In fact, I said the opposite.
      Plus you sound too young to even use this site...

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      • I agree with Bonnabell my current GF has had mental breakdowns infront of me and is still suicidal at times, im fairly confident she would have committed suicide a number of times in the last four months if she didnt have me to be there for her and help her, she was much worse before we started dating and even i can see the improvements and it helps for self-harmers to date each other, it helps to have someone to talk to and not be judged by about it, I dont think I could date anyone other than a person who self harms because I feel judged by people who dont or never have

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      • You just sending them off to therepy and saying I do not want to be assosiated with you is not showing you care. What if they have no freinds I think they need more then doctors. They need a person to say "ill stick by you". Shipping them away and saying get help to them is saying "your a freak I think you need to be locked up". You do not reject them like that and that is how they will take it. They need to be treated like humans not monsters! Just becuase I will not abandon this kind of person deosnt mean Im child.Also if you want my age read it.

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