Of course they need someone, like a therapist for example but certainly not a relationship. They are your lover, not your full time carer. How can a relationship work if they have broken down mentally and cannot give back? They'll only be able to take, as in taking help.
Give and take has to be equal. You cannot give when you are in bad mental health. Trust me, I've been there.
That sounds very judgementel. They are still.human thats like saying a child abused by parents should never have love. Damaged is not worthless. Many if my freinds are like this and I love them the same!
Yes, your friends, NOT your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Self harmers are NOT self harmers forever. These things can be cured. So I am NOT saying these people NEVER deserve love. Clear enough now? Or still too young to? If you cannot put up a sensible, adult debate without your raging emotions getting in the way then I suggest this is not the site for you.
Would you date someone with self harm scars?
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Of course they need someone, like a therapist for example but certainly not a relationship. They are your lover, not your full time carer. How can a relationship work if they have broken down mentally and cannot give back? They'll only be able to take, as in taking help.
Give and take has to be equal. You cannot give when you are in bad mental health. Trust me, I've been there.
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That sounds very judgementel. They are still.human thats like saying a child abused by parents should never have love. Damaged is not worthless. Many if my freinds are like this and I love them the same!
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Yes, your friends, NOT your boyfriend/girlfriend.
Self harmers are NOT self harmers forever. These things can be cured. So I am NOT saying these people NEVER deserve love. Clear enough now? Or still too young to? If you cannot put up a sensible, adult debate without your raging emotions getting in the way then I suggest this is not the site for you.