Would you date someone with autism?

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  • I did for 3 years online. She had Asperger's. Things we alright, I had to teach her a lot of things. Taught her about sarcasm, jokes, how to masturbate, how to keep her pubes trimmed. Took me 2 years to get any naughty camera time with her, and I had developed a pretty deep emotional bond with her. Basically we talked every day for 3 years, for 4+ hours a day (most averaged 8+). She loved animals, and we often talked about getting a zoo going to help animals that needed saving. ALthough it took a lot out of me, I was happy to be with her.

    2 months before we were supposed to meet (I was graduating college and saving money to move in with her basically) she told me she was talking to some guy online and that "he's so easy to talk to. I thought you were easy, but this guy is like breathing" A month later she told me they were having webcam sex. She wouldn't even go that far with me...and even then it took me 2 years. This guy did it within a month. Yeah a big WTF. She told me he had Asperger's also, and we tried a 3 way conversation. He went on some rant with a relationship with satan, and she just swooned. (She was a mormon but didn't like it. Believed a woman's place was subservient to a man). I basically asked her if it was like a light switch, and she just flipped the switch and forgot feelings for me. She said yes. And that was the last time I talked to her. Saw the day she and I were supposed to meet that she changed her screen name to "his fiance."

    So no. I wouldn't give an Aspie another chance. Not after that one. I wasted 3 years of my college life and was replaced literally overnight. Not gonna do that again.

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