Honestly, if I was always a B cup, I probably wouldn't care. But being obese for so long, my breasts were the only positive aspect of my self image so losing them really hurt me.
The thing is, I'm a big believer in taking ownership of your self-esteem and learning to love yourself, rather than taking the quick fix and changing the part of you that you don't like. Implants would fix the immediate problem (the fact that you have low self-esteem), but they wouldn't treat the root cause (the fact that you aren't in control of your feelings).
I do sympathize with you. Do what feels right. But my advice would be working on your positive mental attitude rather than getting surgery.
I already got the surgery, though. I feel like I have the body I imagined myself to always want growing up as a bigger woman. I know why I felt insecure with small breasts, but I'm honestly 100% happy with my appearance now.
I'll just never understand how there are men who appreciate the fake beauty of colored hair, spray tanned skin, make-up, tattoos and piercings but fake breasts are a huge no-no.
Would you date a woman who has breast enhancements?
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Honestly, if I was always a B cup, I probably wouldn't care. But being obese for so long, my breasts were the only positive aspect of my self image so losing them really hurt me.
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The thing is, I'm a big believer in taking ownership of your self-esteem and learning to love yourself, rather than taking the quick fix and changing the part of you that you don't like. Implants would fix the immediate problem (the fact that you have low self-esteem), but they wouldn't treat the root cause (the fact that you aren't in control of your feelings).
I do sympathize with you. Do what feels right. But my advice would be working on your positive mental attitude rather than getting surgery.
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I already got the surgery, though. I feel like I have the body I imagined myself to always want growing up as a bigger woman. I know why I felt insecure with small breasts, but I'm honestly 100% happy with my appearance now.
I'll just never understand how there are men who appreciate the fake beauty of colored hair, spray tanned skin, make-up, tattoos and piercings but fake breasts are a huge no-no.