Would you consider me a sexist?

You are crying that you were starved of the proper social learning of how male and females work... evolutionary males want to have as many partners as possible so they can spread thier genetics.
Females also want to spread their genetics but being pregnant and having a child severely weakens them so they have to be picky in order to survive. Now add a few thousand years of culture and you got the current plight of most males. My tip get female friends (the chatterboxes work quite well) and move up in thier hierarchy to become a mate.

You ain't sexist but you sure as shit dont want to think out why things are how they are.