If you're equating usual with meaning more likely than not, then yes, it's not "usual". What I said was that it wasn't that unusual, meaning it's going on a lot more than many people would suspect. I suppose it comes down to who you're friends with and what sort of things they do. In my world there are people wondering why they can't find a monogamous partner as "poly" is the norm. But hey, YMMV.
Would you consider being a second girlfriend?
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If you're equating usual with meaning more likely than not, then yes, it's not "usual". What I said was that it wasn't that unusual, meaning it's going on a lot more than many people would suspect. I suppose it comes down to who you're friends with and what sort of things they do. In my world there are people wondering why they can't find a monogamous partner as "poly" is the norm. But hey, YMMV.