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Would you cheat if your partner was frequently away for business trips for periods of up to 2 weeks? (In the situation I'm talking about here, you would have a good relationship and would be affectionate when the partner was at home)
| Yes I'd cheat, I'm a man | 9 | |
| No I wouldn't cheat, I'm a man | 48 | |
| Yes I'd cheat, I'm a woman | 4 | |
| No I wouldn't cheat, I'm a woman | 35 |
If I wasn't satisfied in a relationship I would break up and move on. Cheating is retarded. Why be with someone and cheat? Do whatever you want in life but don't be a scumbag about it.
Exactly how I feel. If I felt unhappy and unfulfilled in the relationship, I'd just leave. I feel cheating is just a really hurtful thing to do to your partner. As someone who has been cheated on, I'd much prefer just being broken up with. That pain sucks, but not nearly as bad as being cheated on.
No, cause I'm not a scummy piece of shit.
Also who can't handle 2 weeks without sex? We are humans and have self control. We are not animals to act only on primal needs.
I like sex as much as the next guy, but when my girlfriend is visiting her parents in England for 2 weeks, I keep it in my pants and wait for her to return and then get it on.
Besides when she comes back home, sex feels even better, cause we've missed each other.
I just want to say that I once dumped a female friend after she told me that she slept with a married man, and wanted to keep hooking up with him. I never regret the loss of her friendship.
At the time that this shit went down this woman was in her mid-forties, but she was talking about the situation with this married dude, and like a freaking high school girl. Ain't nobody got time fo dat! She just sounded so freaking selfish, and immature, and she was making me sick.
Rose! I understand disagreeing with her desicion. But we all have baggage. We all make bad decisions for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes our friends straighten us out and it takes time. That's what friends do.
...good for you if it worked out for you. But maybe at that time period she could have used a friend like you to help her see things the way you do.
I dunno about anyone else, but I get the feeling that the OP is a sex addict who would cheat even if their partner did a couple of hours extra overtime at work. I also get the feeling that he or she was hoping everyone would vote "yes" and ergo justify his or her train of thought in doing so.
How bad it must feel to realise you're a vile scumbag. How much worse it must feel to be cheated on by said vile scumbag.
Lol I was writing this from the perspective of the person getting cheated on. The career I want to go into would involve lots of travelling and I was wondering how long term relationships would work out.
You find out early on if the person wants that sort of relationship. But the simpler answer is you should not choose a career that will interfere with your maintaining a stable relationship, never mind raising a family, unless either you flat out don't want those things; or the work you're doing is extremely important and no one else can do it. In which case you will need to find a man or woman with a heart of gold.
I've never cheated and never will. People who cheat on their spouses disgust me.
No, I wouldn't cheat, because people that cheat are trashy, and skanky. Don't cheat unless you want to live your life knowing that you are a skank-ho, because that's what cheaters are. Don't be a skank-ho!
It would be highly inefficient for me to cheat. Any woman that finds me attractive enough to date (my personality is a bit to be desired) deserves the same respect she gives me by not cheating.
No. No one is being forced to stick with one person for ever and ever, but you should at least devote your love to one person at a time.
Na, that's we have porn, keep our dirty asses loyal while they are out for 2 weeks
If you cheat you're not in a "relationship". You're in a lie. What kind of shit pile are you?
You kinda thought in a loop there mate. If your in a "good relationship" you don't cheat. If you have the urge to cheat, its not a good relationship. Anyone who says they would cheat is not understanding the question.
Well im not sure who "they" are, but its not. So perhaps you should not listen to them all the time.
I've never actually cheated in the sense that I've been with someone physically while with someone else, but in a past relationship I sent a saucy picture to some other guy online... But I wasn't thinking straight at the time, so yeah. There was also one other time when I was really in love with this guy and he was with someone else, but I was texting him and sending him pics. He was my ex and I was still madly in love with him, so of course I was going to take the chance to talk to him! I knew it was wrong, but I really did miss him... So I did it anyway. But now that I'm out of those situations and am properly medicated for my mental health disorders, I would NEVER even think of cheating. I think it is so wrong to cheat and I regret ever doing so in the past. But, like I said, I wasn't thinking clearly the first time and the second time I was blinded by love. I am 100% satisfied and happy in my relationship with my man who I wholeheartedly believe is my Soulmate! I am so blessed to have him in my life. <3 xoxo
ain't a good question though. Just see cheating nothing different from crime, can't see anything good about it.