Would would you do as a parent?

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You have a daughter, you have had heard rumours from your daughter's friend about your daughter's being naked on webcam. You soon find out that this was true by your daughter's teacher. What would you end up doing?

Call the Police/Cops to access the situation... 12
Unable her to have a bedroom and make her sleep in the bathroom... 6
Find a broom and spank your daughter until she has a flat bum... 15
Disown your daughter... 0
Motivate your daughter to be a... pornstar... 19
Cripple her... (wheelchair required) 7
Other (add comment) 36
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  • KickTheDog
    12 years ago

    I would fap to it!!

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    • Scarecr0w
      12 years ago

      this

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Well if my daughter is doing this it's probably for the approval of her peers and if she's doing that then it means she doesn't feel like she has my approval (and her mom's).

    So step 1: Severe punishment. After that, invest my time and money into her hobbies, her life, etc.

    She has to know she has my approval and that I value her because if she has father's approval, she won't be looking for it in horny boys.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I'd burn all her trendy clothes I've paid for - as she obviously doesn't need them!

    Id buy her Bridgette Jones big pants and a set of overalls she can wear to school. There would be no computer, no door on her bedroom, no luxuries or privileges at all - so hopefully she would move out and give me peace.

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  • sissycakes
    11 years ago

    these are hilarious, but i don't think most of them are that realistic.

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  • cumblaster
    11 years ago

    In this day and age of 12 yr old girls giving head on the school bus, getting naked on cam isnt a big deal. It's a strange world, go with the flow momma.

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  • tacotuesday
    12 years ago

    well firstly none of those options you metioned theyre all just as stupid as what your daughters done. Like mother, like daughter?

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  • livefastdieold
    12 years ago

    have a good long talk about how to properly have a blast, how to properly make a living, how to have dignity, the importance of dignity, etc. be a parent, that shouldnt be too hard, then again, how the eff did she grow up to be this effed up in the first place? maybe you as the parent need to become educated or seek mental advice. your children are a product of you.

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  • Verstehen
    12 years ago

    I would just like to add that I'm assuming this girl is at least 14/15. Keep in mind that GIRLS BECOME SEXUAL AT A MUCH EALIER AGE THAN BOYS- OR THAN THEIR PARENTS LIKE TO BELIEVE. Also, if she's under 14, definitely scratch the adult product part. (And I wasn't talking about porn- porn is not healthy.) I WOULD take the webcam. But make sure she knows it's for her safety and health, and not as a punishment.

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  • Verstehen
    12 years ago

    If you punish her, she will continue. Don't punish her. What you should do is first, check your parenting. (Not implying you're a bad parent, but in today's world, it's very hard to make time to fully support a teenage girl.) Make sure she knows she can talk to you- if she isn't open with you, it's because she's afraid. If she's afraid, it's because she knows her honesty will result in punishment or judgement. Demonstrate to her that she CAN tell you anything by just listening, comforting and advising- even if you don't like what you hear. Explain WHY certain decisions are better than others. This girl obviously has self-esteem issues. See about getting her to a female counselor (a good one, a "hip" one) and maybe getting her involved in some women's activities, i.e. a women's sports team or a volunteer service that promotes strength and self-respect in teenage girls. Seeing other strong women and girls will definitely cause her to look at herself. Also, remember that she's a teenager and she has sexuality. She just DOES. Since this is unavoidable, maybe her mother could sit down and talk to her about healthier ways to relieve sexual tension. (If this is too awkward, maybe the counselor could talk to her about it instead.) If she should need anything to help with that, maybe mom could take her shopping. I know plenty of VERY healthy, confident, strong teenage girls who went "adult woman shopping" with mom. As bad as it may seem to think about your teenage daughter using an adult item, it would be good to know that she's taking care of those urges in private, rather than airing her naked ass all over the place. Hope this didn't sound too harsh, and I hope it helps. Good luck!

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  • TyLee
    12 years ago

    I would not freak out and start taking things away! This only makes the situation worse and she will be even more rebellious. I think it would be best to worry more about the attention issues that she has that is causing her to do this. Many parents learn the hard way that they need to take responsibility for their parenting. If the kid is doing this there is usually something wrong with the parenting. I would really take time evaluating my daughters issues, provide support and love and guide her to make better choices.

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  • Narutofan
    12 years ago

    I would put strict parental controls on the computers in the house, so she could only do homework and nothing else on the computer. She would be grounded from going out with friends for at least a month. Not to mention, I would take away her webcam and cell phone.

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    12 years ago

    I'd set some time or even a day aside to instigate a long discussion in which I find out:

    a) How long this has been happening.

    b) Why does she want to do this?

    c) Does she think it's acceptable behaviour for her age (if she's over 18 it's up to her)?

    Or something along those lines. I think it'd be better to help her reach her own conclusion to the situation rather than enforce rules on her. Of course if we are talking about an under-age girl then I would be obliged to prevent her from doing it again until she is an adult.

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  • wigsplitz
    12 years ago

    The computer would be off limits, first of all. Then probably have a long talk, her attitude at this point would determine punishment. Is she sorry, or is she being defiant?

    I'd probably get police involved becuase it may be an issue of child pornography. Who has video or images from her? That scares me most. If anyone has these images, they need to destroy them or be prosecuted. If that includes my daughter for being the one who did this, then so be it. I'd rather have her in trouble than have a whole bunch of disgusting perverts haing video of her doing and planning God-knows-what.

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    • casualcrow
      12 years ago

      As soon as video or pictures stream on the Internet its virtually impossible to contain the situation. Especially if her peers at her school have access to it chances are they made copies and re-posted the video on another site.

      So calling the police won't stop the images of her from circulating.

      If you take her computer away you might as well take her phone away as well, since most phones nowadays act like computers. And even if you do that it all depends on her view on all of this. If she thinks that she didn't do anything wrong then she's probably gonna act like a slut at school and probably get a reputation as the local ride.

      So taking things away is a temporary solution, maybe not even that. She will have to change her whole outlook on things.

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      • wigsplitz
        12 years ago

        No shit Sherlock. And you must not have a daughter, because if you did, you wouldn't care if you only got one person out of a thousand arrested for having her image, the point would be to do whatever you can. And people around town who had the image would be made aware that you're getting the cops involved so they would likely voluntarily get rid of the images.

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        • casualcrow
          12 years ago

          No need for the rude attitude. I don't have to have children to realize that getting the cops involved in a matter such as this would be futile.

          You really think that "people around town" would be intimidated that someone was arrested? And do you really (even more unreasonably) think that they will "voluntarily get rid of the images"? That is just ridiculous.

          People are arrested for child pornography everyday. That doesn't stop people from downloading child porn and jerking off to it everyday.

          Also, how do you expect the police to arrest everyone with the image? Are these people just gonna start confessing? No. Your next door neighbor could have a collection of child porn and you may never know about it.

          The only way people get caught for this kind of stuff is if there is an outside source that could inform someone. If i download child porn and never speak a word about it to anyone chances are i'll never get caught. And internet anonymity only solidifies that statement.

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          • wigsplitz
            12 years ago

            You're not saying anything I don't know, bud. I'm in my 30's with kids, I didn't just fall off the turnip truck. I think you're grossly overstepping your bounds by making such comments and not even having a kid. When you have kids, you wouldn't believe how much you change.

            "People are arrested for child pornography everyday. That doesn't stop people from downloading child porn and jerking off to it everyday." ...... OK, yes, and people are arrested for murder every day. So what are you saying, we should just not prosecute people for crimes because it's going to keep happening, so what's the point? BULLSHIT.

            Anyone who has solid information about pornographic underage photos and videos (especially their OWN child) and they DON'T do anyhting, is a piece of crap. As I said, it doesn't matter if one out of a thousand gets prosecuted, that's still one less person out there (even if temporarily) preying on kids.

            How do I expect the police to arrest people?....and....why would anyone voluntarily get rid of the images? Well, we'd start with finding out who the images were originally sent to. We'd have proof of such from computer usage records. Pick up a couple people we KNOW had the image and create a chain. When people are in trouble with the law, they tend to cooperate if they think it will help their case. Interview the ones you KNOW had the image, look through their computers/phones and/or convince them to give up information voluntarily through an interview. Police are good at this, they do it every day. Same way how they find drug dealers-arrest a small-fry junkie, the junkie will roll on his dealer, the dealer will roll on his supplier and so on. It's a proven method. Maybe by me calling about my child, would garner enough information to get to more serious offenders. Even if it didn't, I would know I at least tried. Trying is better than doing nothing. What does it hurt to try?

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            • casualcrow
              12 years ago

              I think you're the one who is misunderstanding me. You may have kids, but thinking you are more experienced and more knowledgeable because of that shares the same fault as me "overstepping my bounds".

              Like i said, i don't have to have kids in order to realize the futility of something. Im not saying you shouldn't prosecute a specific person.
              Like you said "Anyone who has solid information about pornographic underage photos and videos (especially their OWN child) and they DON'T do anyhting, is a piece of crap."

              But that's not what were talking about. The fact is that you DON'T have evidence of ANYONE ELSE having your daughters picture. You're just upset that its floating around online. Now you may be able to arrest the initial people that had the picture, but what about the websites and private servers they posted it on? What will contacting the police do? I guarantee even if you contact the police they themselves will tell you that they can't do anything unless you know of a specific person.

              But if you have no evidence and you just want to call the cops because you actually think they can do something about a picture circulating on the internet then don't hold your breath, because you're being irrational, or else every drunk girl who had her picture taken at a college party would be doing the same thing.

              "How do I expect the police to arrest people?....and....why would anyone voluntarily get rid of the images? Well, we'd start with finding out who the images were originally sent to."

              You really think someone would be stupid enough to accept a picture from their personal e-mail address? You really think a pedophile doesn't think these things through? It seems you're underestimating how anonymous people can actually be online.

              Don't get me wrong, put all the effort you want towards this, you might get lucky. But also, pictures and videos like this don't usually get sent to private addresses, they get posted on servers that are untraceable and have anonymous IP addresses, and popular sites like Youporn or some other porn site.

              Even if you have someone you KNOW had the pic in custody, if they already posted the video or pic, then you're shit outta luck. Im not telling you not to try, in the end you'll do whatever the hell you want.

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  • catywompus
    12 years ago

    Oh my my my. Well, first I'd smash the computer then I just don't know. I guess I'd have to know how old she was to determine proper ass-whoopin

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