Yeah, I've been there with not making eye contact, mushing up words, and trying to keep conversation. I've been practicing being social on the customers at my job lately. Before that, I was practicing on strangers at malls and meet up groups(dating sites too, but the men and women on there are batshit insane, so I'm not counting that at this point). A bunch of these attempts ended in failure. Some of the reasons were my fault, other times it was because I wasn't compatible with the other person, or it was their fault. Perhaps you should keep going to social events? They're the best opportunities to practice and meet others. I don't think you're born unlucky in love. You just have to keep trying and try to have more patience. As long as you're not desperate, bitter, clingy, or a criminal, you're definitely capable of finding someone. For some people finding someone takes more time than others. I didn't find someone until I was like 26.
Would u be offended if someone asked if you had autism?
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Yeah, I've been there with not making eye contact, mushing up words, and trying to keep conversation. I've been practicing being social on the customers at my job lately. Before that, I was practicing on strangers at malls and meet up groups(dating sites too, but the men and women on there are batshit insane, so I'm not counting that at this point). A bunch of these attempts ended in failure. Some of the reasons were my fault, other times it was because I wasn't compatible with the other person, or it was their fault. Perhaps you should keep going to social events? They're the best opportunities to practice and meet others. I don't think you're born unlucky in love. You just have to keep trying and try to have more patience. As long as you're not desperate, bitter, clingy, or a criminal, you're definitely capable of finding someone. For some people finding someone takes more time than others. I didn't find someone until I was like 26.