Would u be offended if someone asked if you had autism?

All other things aside, yeah, that would be annoying, saying "...we were just talking about autism and how you have it too"

I would have ordered some pancakes and when they came, put on in my hand, slapped her and say "BITCH!"
Then you could say you "Flap jack bitch slapped her funky ass".

My previous response may have been a bit harsh, but anyways yeah her asking that was a bit uncalled for.

If she is fat (I would bet money she is) you could have said, "Oh yeah, we were talking about medical obesity and how you suffer from it too".