I smoke, and I've never been rejected because of it as far as I'm aware. My ex hated it but he put up with it cuz at the end of the day, it's looks and personality that count. Anybody who'd reject a woman on such a shallow basis isnt worth keeping around.
It isn't the person that you hate. Mostly, it is the stink. I grew up with a smoker, and every year that I am away from it, I hate the addiction more. You do realize that less than 20% of people in the U.S. smoke, and that 70% of smokers regret the day they started. My father quit when they cut his nose off--yes, the whole nose. For the next three years every time he spent more than five minutes with his kids he apologized for his smoking. He started smoking at age 6 and was 64 when he quit. You have been rejected out of hand for a long time and I think you know it: you do realize that whoever rejected you did not think you were worth having around solely on your addiction.
I'm from the UK, maybe it's different here - a lot more people smoke. I guess I do tend to date smokers, but then I'm a raver so most guys who are into the same music etc as I am smoke anyway. I'm not gonna try and say it's good for you because obviously it isn't, or that it smells good because obviously it doesn't, but I do think it's shallow to reject someone simply because of that. Everyone has their faults - I quit smoking for a year, and I dated guys who smoked during that time. It didn't bother me.
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I smoke, and I've never been rejected because of it as far as I'm aware. My ex hated it but he put up with it cuz at the end of the day, it's looks and personality that count. Anybody who'd reject a woman on such a shallow basis isnt worth keeping around.
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It isn't the person that you hate. Mostly, it is the stink. I grew up with a smoker, and every year that I am away from it, I hate the addiction more. You do realize that less than 20% of people in the U.S. smoke, and that 70% of smokers regret the day they started. My father quit when they cut his nose off--yes, the whole nose. For the next three years every time he spent more than five minutes with his kids he apologized for his smoking. He started smoking at age 6 and was 64 when he quit. You have been rejected out of hand for a long time and I think you know it: you do realize that whoever rejected you did not think you were worth having around solely on your addiction.
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I'm from the UK, maybe it's different here - a lot more people smoke. I guess I do tend to date smokers, but then I'm a raver so most guys who are into the same music etc as I am smoke anyway. I'm not gonna try and say it's good for you because obviously it isn't, or that it smells good because obviously it doesn't, but I do think it's shallow to reject someone simply because of that. Everyone has their faults - I quit smoking for a year, and I dated guys who smoked during that time. It didn't bother me.