Would i be considered a pillow princess?

This is NSFW and likely also TMI - just as a warning.

Naturally I'm a switch when it comes to romance. I certainly don't mind being on the bottom, but the top is enjoyable too. With my current boyfriend I just don't feel like I'm doing enough sometimes. I try to be the primary source of foreplay and let him just lay down for a bit - but usually within about thirty minutes I'm stuck on my back. He's bigger than me and pins me down so I can't hope to be mischievous and flip him over. I try other ways to help out. I may move my hips or whisper or kiss his neck or scratch his back, but I don't feel like its much.

He on the other hand ensures me that I'm doing enough for him. I just also know that he's an inexperienced sweetheart who likely would be okay even if I just laid there like a dead fish. I want him to be more than happy- especially because I love him and he deserves it. Am I truly currently doing enough? We're both each other's first without anything to compare. If not, what more can I do?

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  • You are likely doing enough for him but not enough for yourself. Trust that he’s telling you the truth and talk to him more about how you feel.

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  • If he says you are doing enough, then you are. If both of you are enjoying sex then it's fine.

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  • Feel free to take charge sometimes... Nothing hotter than your girl getting rough and getting on top.

    I prefer having my girlfriend on top. Since she's 40kg, she can go wild jumping up and down, moving about any way she wants and it will never be a problem.

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  • if he's happy with it, you're doing enough.

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  • talk to him about it. tell him to let you control it for once.

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  • Talk to him about trying something new

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