I think poeple do like to paint things worse than they are sometimes, but maybe not this OP. It was just what I guessed. But either way, she didn't like it and she got out. The details donn't really matter too much any rate.
I wouldn't necessarily say that opinions need to be based on facts, but I do believe that accusations need to be based on facts. He calls it his opinion, but really it's more than an opinion, it's an accusation. I can see nothing in OP's post that would lead anyone to believe that she's exaggerating.
Sorry for the nitpicking there. I do think that it's bad enough that lots of abuse victims/survivors have to deal with gaslighting from their abusers, but sometimes they have to deal with attitudes of denial from their own families.
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I am confused! Is it a timing thing or what? You agree with me examples of suspected exaggeration in my other comment, but now you say you don't see anything in the post that would lead you to believe she is exaggerating.
Your the one that took my opinion seriously to begin with! Also, in a situation like this, how are you supposed to use facts to back up your advice? There was a study done on women in this kind if abusive relationship and the had them try different rehab methods and one worked better than the others?
Why express an opinion (which as RoseIsabella has correctly pointed out is more of an accusation)if you didn't want it to be taken seriously?
And exactly, you don't have facts to back up anything, let alone an opinion, although it is possible to give advice based totally on a post without background facts.
Your last sentence/question makes no sense at all.
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You "do feel" that based on what evidence? I agree with your last sentence
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I think poeple do like to paint things worse than they are sometimes, but maybe not this OP. It was just what I guessed. But either way, she didn't like it and she got out. The details donn't really matter too much any rate.
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It may make you feel wise or smart to make uninformed guesses about people, but it's a pointless waste of time. Why do you bother?
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Sorry for sharing my opinion! But I will keep doing it!
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To be taken seriously, opinions need to be based on facts
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I wouldn't necessarily say that opinions need to be based on facts, but I do believe that accusations need to be based on facts. He calls it his opinion, but really it's more than an opinion, it's an accusation. I can see nothing in OP's post that would lead anyone to believe that she's exaggerating.
Sorry for the nitpicking there. I do think that it's bad enough that lots of abuse victims/survivors have to deal with gaslighting from their abusers, but sometimes they have to deal with attitudes of denial from their own families.
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I am confused! Is it a timing thing or what? You agree with me examples of suspected exaggeration in my other comment, but now you say you don't see anything in the post that would lead you to believe she is exaggerating.
Thank you for your "nitpicking", which is actually quite correct.
Your the one that took my opinion seriously to begin with! Also, in a situation like this, how are you supposed to use facts to back up your advice? There was a study done on women in this kind if abusive relationship and the had them try different rehab methods and one worked better than the others?
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Why express an opinion (which as RoseIsabella has correctly pointed out is more of an accusation)if you didn't want it to be taken seriously?
And exactly, you don't have facts to back up anything, let alone an opinion, although it is possible to give advice based totally on a post without background facts.
Your last sentence/question makes no sense at all.