I'm somewhat of a traditionalist. I find those qualities to be highly sought after. The OP just needs to find a guy that is within her tastes unfortunately that may take a few years because guys take a while to mature.
It's icky to me, because he sort of treats her like a house cat and not as a person. You can find someone adorable without making them feel like a helpless pet. Then the whole "You can't see your friends/go to work because I think you're easily influenced"? That's owner/pet logic. I don't let my cats leave the house cause they're going to get lost or taken by someone else, and I find their helplessness/cat like behavior and appearance adorable.
Truly that's not tradition unless you're referring to the darkest parts of history.
The pet part is creepy. Never got that form of thinking. I dont find the not being able to do things so I'll take the mantle kinda enduring of course this would deteriorate the relationship if he didnt allow for some tasks to be done. But I don't think that would happen I think he would just get more mature and let her have some more say in the matter. Of course it's still up to her.
Would all men see me that way?
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I'm somewhat of a traditionalist. I find those qualities to be highly sought after. The OP just needs to find a guy that is within her tastes unfortunately that may take a few years because guys take a while to mature.
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It's icky to me, because he sort of treats her like a house cat and not as a person. You can find someone adorable without making them feel like a helpless pet. Then the whole "You can't see your friends/go to work because I think you're easily influenced"? That's owner/pet logic. I don't let my cats leave the house cause they're going to get lost or taken by someone else, and I find their helplessness/cat like behavior and appearance adorable.
Truly that's not tradition unless you're referring to the darkest parts of history.
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The pet part is creepy. Never got that form of thinking. I dont find the not being able to do things so I'll take the mantle kinda enduring of course this would deteriorate the relationship if he didnt allow for some tasks to be done. But I don't think that would happen I think he would just get more mature and let her have some more say in the matter. Of course it's still up to her.
What qualities specifically do you find to be highly sought after?