Would all men see me that way?

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  • palehorse
    4 years ago | pl

    Not just wacko - borderline abusive. Even if it wasn't intentional, this is clearly manipulative behavior - especially the part where he tries to cut her off from others. Jesus...

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    • RoseIsabella
      4 years ago | pl

      Most definitely! I sure as Hell have no use for some bastard who thinks he can tell me where I can go, and with whom I can associate. Fuck that bullshit!

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    • Doesnormalmatter
      4 years ago | pl

      If that cut off from others part was like a long term thing, that is pretty fucked. I do feel OP is maybe exagerating how bad it was a little bit, so I don't like to assume the worst. But either way, it is a damn good thing she got the fuck out!

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago | pl

        Nope, I don't think it's appropriate to invalidate OP, by suggesting that she was exaggerating.

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago | pl

          I did not invalidate her! I said it was a good thing she got the fuck out. Please explain how that is invalidating? Also, see my above reply to Ellenna.

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          • RoseIsabella
            4 years ago | pl

            I completely agree with your comment that it's a good thing that she got the fuck out! What I take issue with is that you said that you think she's exaggerating. Accusing someone who is a survivor of an abusive relationship like OP of exaggerating is an invalidating thing to do.

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            • NoLifer
              4 years ago | pl

              I notice this website does that of the thing spoken about doesn't happen in thier own life. Like you are not me you are a liar mentality.

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            • Doesnormalmatter
              4 years ago | pl

              Do you really not think that people exaggerate on Iin? You of all people should know better. I regret adding that detail of my impression of the situation, when it does not change the outcome. Why do you have to be devils advocate and pick at the details? Does it really matter if she exaggerated or not? She got out and she did the right thing regardless.

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              • RoseIsabella
                4 years ago | pl

                Of course there are people who exaggerate on It It Normal, but I don't think that OP was exaggerating. My question to you is why do you think she was exaggerating? What did her post say to give you the impression that she was exaggerating? What good could possibly come from you accusing her of exaggerating?

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      • Ellenna
        4 years ago | pl

        You "do feel" that based on what evidence? I agree with your last sentence

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        • Doesnormalmatter
          4 years ago | pl

          I think poeple do like to paint things worse than they are sometimes, but maybe not this OP. It was just what I guessed. But either way, she didn't like it and she got out. The details donn't really matter too much any rate.

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      • palehorse
        4 years ago | pl

        Yeah.

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