Would a woman respond positively if i gave her no options

Just tell her we're going on a date and I'll pick her up at a certain location... I could bring her somewhere nice or to a fast food place if I felt like it. Then drop her off and tell her where to be next week.

Yes 1
No 14
Some might 11
Duhh... I dunno. 2
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  • Tayariii

    Depends a lot on the woman and whether she likes you. I don't recommend it.

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  • Tealights

    Nope.

    If you approach any woman that you're not already good friends with in this manner, they will think you're being too forceful. Oddly enough, 99% of the time, dates must be on her terms until she trust you enough; you can suggest a place, and see how she feels about it.

    The best thing for any man to do is learn patience, and how to judge character. Patience, because we (women) are raised to be cautious of everything in our life, from who we talk to, to where we go, to the friends we make, and even to family members we don't know well. Or we learn it the hard way through mostly avoidable situations, because we gave the wrong person the benefit of the doubt or too trusting. So if you're making "no options" plans with a girl you just met, she'll become scared, and probably cancel at the last minute or say no; because we live in a constant state of, "Will this person eventually hurt/rape/try to kill me?" So as annoying as it is to go through the motions of earning her trust, or her stopping all communication with you for whatever reason; it's what we're raised or conditioned to do to protect ourselves.

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  • Ganondorf

    Youd be better off going to a bar. play some pool/8 ball, have a drink, a chat and if you guys are hungry go grab a pizza afterwards. just have a chill evening

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  • yesnomaybeso

    A FAST FOOD PLACE? wtf

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    • Angelandme

      What's wrong with fast food? It's some of the tastiest soulfood like food. If you want to feed the soul take her to McDonalds, if you want to feed your ego go to Red Lobster or a fancy french place that charges you 60$ for lamb that tastes like pennies and the only thing you really like are 2 tiny golden potatoes on your plate.

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      • yesnomaybeso

        Fast food isn't a place to take your date to.
        I'm not talking about a $60 place, but something fancier and with more class than Maccas would be better

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  • wigz

    It's probably not a great idea. The only way it's going to work is if she would say yes no matter how you asked, you're not very likely to win anyone over with that approach and you might even put some off with it when otherwise they might be interested if you didn't come across so domineering.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If she doesn't like you already she certainly isn't going to appreciate the idea. If if she was into you she might not appreciate it.

    Your whole idea sounds rather childish and self-centered. From a woman's point of view I wouldn't see the appeal. What's your point with this mess? You can't force anyone to like you or like the things you like. Are you non neurotypical per chance?

    I'm not trying to be mean, but why would a woman want to participate in the scenario you've just described? Would you be patient and willing to allow her to do the same? Would there be any reciprocity after such an event or encounter? Try to put yourself in this fictional woman's shoes.

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    • Hellnaw

      He can't put himself in her shoes or he wouldn't be asking. I hope she turns him down brutally for being an a hole

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