No such thing as cheating either, this is society brainwashing. Everyone has a right to screw who they want, when they want, if they choose not too then thats their choice.
I don't have the right to go with anyone other than my sweetie nor does he have the right to be with anyone other than me. This is what we want and we're both happy this way!
Good for you and your sweetie. You both made the choice to only screw each other.
Me and mine did too btw and we are happy as well...however in my first marriage my wife made the choice not to screw so I made the choice to find what I wanted elsewhere. She was cool with it as long as I didn't throw it in her face and I was cool with it because I got my rocks off on a regular basis while still coming home and taking care of business at home.
Hmm... well, I'd personally rather be alone than be in an open marriage, but I've never been in a sexless relationship either. I would simply leave a relationship rather than cheat or accept someone else cheating. It seems like too much of a hassle to remain in a loveless marriage. My resources always seem to go so much further when I'm single anyway, and I don't have to answer to anyone. For me there are too many advantages to being single to ever remain in a relationship where I'm unsatisfied. I just don't see the point in cheating on someone or putting up with someone who cheats when I can be so much happier alone. It makes no sense and seems like such a waste.
Your idea of leaving a sexless relationship is rarely as easy as you're making it sound. Your sexless spouse could and often will continually sue you so that you both have nothing for seven years (statute of limitations), or longer. This has happened to many of my friends. The only defense is to leave the country permanently.
Not entirely true, although I understand what you're saying. Everyone who is single or in an "open" relationship has the right.
If you've emotionally invested in another individual exclusively, along with their emotional investment exclusively (based on behavioral observations, nothing verbal), I would conclude that certain behaviors encompass "cheating" and would/could occur outside of this.
Cheating is a social norm which was developed via society by women.
Men used to be free to 'do their thing' until they got weak and hen pecked. Fact is marriage or not, we are all free human beings who can do what we want, when we want and for what ever reason we want. Sure it might break someones heart, they may feel betrayed, wronged or 'cheated on' but fact is any adult human being is owned by no one and is free to do what they want.
Society created this cheating thing to bring stability to families in order for a man and a woman to have and raise children in a stable, growing, happy and healthy environment. Which is great, I'm all for it. However in order to create this lifestyle we have to live in a fake world of false devotion. Which means men and women have to sneak around to do what they want.
Note, that yes I am married and no I don't cheat....by choice. I acknowledge that my wife has the right to screw who ever she wants for any reason. I can not take that right from her....I assume she does not, but I won't ask, its her business. And yes I probably would be hurt if she did, but still that does not give me the right to take away her freedoms.
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Nothing wrong with being a shitty person.
No such thing as cheating either, this is society brainwashing. Everyone has a right to screw who they want, when they want, if they choose not too then thats their choice.
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I don't have the right to go with anyone other than my sweetie nor does he have the right to be with anyone other than me. This is what we want and we're both happy this way!
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Good for you and your sweetie. You both made the choice to only screw each other.
Me and mine did too btw and we are happy as well...however in my first marriage my wife made the choice not to screw so I made the choice to find what I wanted elsewhere. She was cool with it as long as I didn't throw it in her face and I was cool with it because I got my rocks off on a regular basis while still coming home and taking care of business at home.
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Hmm... well, I'd personally rather be alone than be in an open marriage, but I've never been in a sexless relationship either. I would simply leave a relationship rather than cheat or accept someone else cheating. It seems like too much of a hassle to remain in a loveless marriage. My resources always seem to go so much further when I'm single anyway, and I don't have to answer to anyone. For me there are too many advantages to being single to ever remain in a relationship where I'm unsatisfied. I just don't see the point in cheating on someone or putting up with someone who cheats when I can be so much happier alone. It makes no sense and seems like such a waste.
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You have obviously never been married
Your idea of leaving a sexless relationship is rarely as easy as you're making it sound. Your sexless spouse could and often will continually sue you so that you both have nothing for seven years (statute of limitations), or longer. This has happened to many of my friends. The only defense is to leave the country permanently.
Not entirely true, although I understand what you're saying. Everyone who is single or in an "open" relationship has the right.
If you've emotionally invested in another individual exclusively, along with their emotional investment exclusively (based on behavioral observations, nothing verbal), I would conclude that certain behaviors encompass "cheating" and would/could occur outside of this.
Of course, everyone likes to get laid also.
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Cheating is a social norm which was developed via society by women.
Men used to be free to 'do their thing' until they got weak and hen pecked. Fact is marriage or not, we are all free human beings who can do what we want, when we want and for what ever reason we want. Sure it might break someones heart, they may feel betrayed, wronged or 'cheated on' but fact is any adult human being is owned by no one and is free to do what they want.
Society created this cheating thing to bring stability to families in order for a man and a woman to have and raise children in a stable, growing, happy and healthy environment. Which is great, I'm all for it. However in order to create this lifestyle we have to live in a fake world of false devotion. Which means men and women have to sneak around to do what they want.
Note, that yes I am married and no I don't cheat....by choice. I acknowledge that my wife has the right to screw who ever she wants for any reason. I can not take that right from her....I assume she does not, but I won't ask, its her business. And yes I probably would be hurt if she did, but still that does not give me the right to take away her freedoms.
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Yes, but it does give you the right to take away your paycheck. This is why some men think it is cheaper to own a woman than to rent one.