Would a female invite a man over if she didn't want sex?

What is wrong wit having a friend to talk to without fucking them.

Maybe she's not flirting but just being friendly. Sounds like she just wants to be friends. Nothing wrong with that. Wife may disapprove of a female friend though. Would you disapprove if your wife had a male friend?

She could always want to just cuddle right?

Coulda been a test that you unintentionally passed.

The reason I asked is because I am married but me and this female at work flirt a lot. Very strong eye contact and body language etc. People notice. But one day I was at home and she called me, we talked for a bit and she asked me to come over. I got there and nothing, no hug, no flirting, no nothing. I mean at work she is all over me but now we are alone at her place and she is cold.

What gives?

Um yea its called hanging out not everyone only thinks about sex

I think you should try to ascertain her motivations for inviting you to her place. If she flirts with you at work then she is obviously interested, and maybe when she called you for coffee it was about seeing how you felt towards her. Maybe she misinterpret you or got the wrong impression, and therefore she decided to play it safe just in case you don't reciprocate the affections. Don't take her seemingly cold behavior as a reflection of herself but possibly as a sign that she was expecting something from you, perhaps to take charge and lead the way. Make her feel comfortable enough to really discuss what's on her mind.

I have many female friends online and we both understand that all we can ever be is friends. Sure there is some flirting going on but I respect boundaries. I understand that several women I talk to are in great relationships. Even if they were single they live so far away and the chance of me ever hooking up with them is so microscopic that it doesn't phase me at all. As a man it's just fascinating for me to try and decipher how the female mind works, what makes them tick, what their dreams, goals, and ambitions are, how they feel about literally any topic I can think of. Even if I get nothing out of it, the action is intrinsically the reward itself.

"Female"?
You sound like Dwight from The Office.

The question is the man expects sex when such a thing occurs, I have got mine every time it's happened. Why else would I would I come over?

Well, she may just want talk, usually married people who flirt with others aren't looking for true love and could just be looking for sex but you can't jump the gun.

Fuck that.

Shes either nothing more than a dick teaser and/or she just wants to show off at work with the guy other women are attracted too.