A 14 year old who is "mentally mature for her age" who is obsessing about a boy of any age is hardly "mature" at all. You are all children and should be having tea parties and playing with dolls, not contemplating a relationship with anyone of the opposite sex.
Why are all of you trying to grow up so damn fast?
You haven't any idea of the burdens and responsibilities that come with leaving the nice, warm, secure and FREE residence you have at your parents' house.
In time neither of you will even remember this 17 year old kid, nor he you two, unless someone is so stupid as to ruin their life by getting knocked up.
The two of you should go play with your dollies and take advantage of the opportunities available in school. Allow yourselves to grow up at a rate commensurate with your growing knowledge, not cup size!
To have an attraction to any member of the opposite sex is nature, it's not something to be opressed. I agree with your point with getting knocked up, but believe me, if my friend were to be involved with this guy, she'd be far to sensible to do anything like that. And you're suggesting that a seventeen year old, who can have sex legally, get married with parent's consent and drive a car (these are the laws in Britain, by the way, in case you get confused) should be "playing with dollies"? Maybe I misunderstood your analogy.
It was my understanding that the girl is 14, the guy 17. Am I wrong? And attraction is one thing, while obsessing is a whole other thing, and NOT appropriate for a 14 year old girl!
Basically my point was that all these children who are trying to grow up so fast are missing the joys of the now.
Worried about my friend who's into an older guy?
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A 14 year old who is "mentally mature for her age" who is obsessing about a boy of any age is hardly "mature" at all. You are all children and should be having tea parties and playing with dolls, not contemplating a relationship with anyone of the opposite sex.
Why are all of you trying to grow up so damn fast?
You haven't any idea of the burdens and responsibilities that come with leaving the nice, warm, secure and FREE residence you have at your parents' house.
In time neither of you will even remember this 17 year old kid, nor he you two, unless someone is so stupid as to ruin their life by getting knocked up.
The two of you should go play with your dollies and take advantage of the opportunities available in school. Allow yourselves to grow up at a rate commensurate with your growing knowledge, not cup size!
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To have an attraction to any member of the opposite sex is nature, it's not something to be opressed. I agree with your point with getting knocked up, but believe me, if my friend were to be involved with this guy, she'd be far to sensible to do anything like that. And you're suggesting that a seventeen year old, who can have sex legally, get married with parent's consent and drive a car (these are the laws in Britain, by the way, in case you get confused) should be "playing with dollies"? Maybe I misunderstood your analogy.
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It was my understanding that the girl is 14, the guy 17. Am I wrong? And attraction is one thing, while obsessing is a whole other thing, and NOT appropriate for a 14 year old girl!
Basically my point was that all these children who are trying to grow up so fast are missing the joys of the now.