I'm sorry if this problem seems pathetic but it's true we're having communication difficulties.
Respondents have asked what I actually tried to do.Well I said sorry sorry over & over ditto are you all right.I was knelt beside him with my hand on hhis arm for a while.
He's quite a macho sort of man in a nice way.I wonder if he's a bit ashamed to be seen to be so hurt in front of me.His pride & that.
I think to that he was surprized it could hurt so much that he couldn.t cope better with it,& is embarrassed.
Sometimes I think he just wanted me to cuddle him & say soothing things but was to manly to ask
All just guesses really
Perhaps he feels I should have known what it would be like & taken more care
Women what do you normally do when husband has a groin injury
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I'm sorry if this problem seems pathetic but it's true we're having communication difficulties.
Respondents have asked what I actually tried to do.Well I said sorry sorry over & over ditto are you all right.I was knelt beside him with my hand on hhis arm for a while.
He's quite a macho sort of man in a nice way.I wonder if he's a bit ashamed to be seen to be so hurt in front of me.His pride & that.
I think to that he was surprized it could hurt so much that he couldn.t cope better with it,& is embarrassed.
Sometimes I think he just wanted me to cuddle him & say soothing things but was to manly to ask
All just guesses really
Perhaps he feels I should have known what it would be like & taken more care