It is likely, you are being a tad hard on yourself. You mentioned, "We haven't been married long & I thinkk he is worried I'll think less of him for seeming so weak.Something like that.". Yes, this is HIGHLY probable. You mentioned "He's quite a macho sort of man in a nice way.". I am wed to the same kind of lad! Additionally, I have eleven years on my hubby. I know, 'I know', but I just could not stop myself.(giggle)
You should go with your instincts. BTW, my hubby and I used to do the "playful wrestling & fooling around session" thing. Usually, I would pretend not to be 'in the mood'. Hubby would 'press' the issue. I kind of like to be 'conquered". That is, to just be 'taken'. It gets me so 'hot'. (blush!) However, we had to stop.
Mainly, because of the kind of incident you described. Hubby would become excited and employ too much force. That is, he would grip me too tightly and I would have bruises next day. For my part, I would become too 'excited' and my natural competitiveness, would kick in. I would forget to be careful. That is, I would not mind where my; elbows, knees, and feet would finish up! Three times, I injured the 'crown jewels! The last time, hubby needed medical attention.
Yes, this is a v-e-r-y vulnerable area for lads; physically, emotionally, sexually, and socially. Indeed, a great deal of mothering is in order. However (given time) this should blow over in due course. That is, provided there are not other issues under the surface. Best wishes!
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It is likely, you are being a tad hard on yourself. You mentioned, "We haven't been married long & I thinkk he is worried I'll think less of him for seeming so weak.Something like that.". Yes, this is HIGHLY probable. You mentioned "He's quite a macho sort of man in a nice way.". I am wed to the same kind of lad! Additionally, I have eleven years on my hubby. I know, 'I know', but I just could not stop myself.(giggle)
You should go with your instincts. BTW, my hubby and I used to do the "playful wrestling & fooling around session" thing. Usually, I would pretend not to be 'in the mood'. Hubby would 'press' the issue. I kind of like to be 'conquered". That is, to just be 'taken'. It gets me so 'hot'. (blush!) However, we had to stop.
Mainly, because of the kind of incident you described. Hubby would become excited and employ too much force. That is, he would grip me too tightly and I would have bruises next day. For my part, I would become too 'excited' and my natural competitiveness, would kick in. I would forget to be careful. That is, I would not mind where my; elbows, knees, and feet would finish up! Three times, I injured the 'crown jewels! The last time, hubby needed medical attention.
Yes, this is a v-e-r-y vulnerable area for lads; physically, emotionally, sexually, and socially. Indeed, a great deal of mothering is in order. However (given time) this should blow over in due course. That is, provided there are not other issues under the surface. Best wishes!