"Captain Obvious" here -- but have you ever had an "exit interview" with any of these girls to determine a common theme? This can be difficult, as I'm sure you're reluctant to ask "why" and they're reluctant to be completely honest about "why". Still, if this continues to be a problem for you, the women who are leaving are the best source of your information.
We've probably already discussed this before as well, but it seems like you have a deep interest in anime. Do you belong to any anime fan groups? Again, I realize this is an obvious question; it just seems like one place you might meet a girl who would share your interests.
I really do hope you find your answers on this. I could feed you all of the usual lines about you meeting someone "when the time is right" and that you should concentrate on your school and/or hobbies now, etc. But the need for love is overwhelming at times, and it tends to take center stage in our lives at times when we may not even want it to. I hope 2008 will be a good year for you in this regard -- hope to keep hearing from you as well.
JanIAm: Alright, here is what I've came up with today. I sat down for a while today and thought about this, but this is what I came up with.
Let's look at this at different point of view.
- Problem: Women are running off/drifting away.
- Theory: There is something about me that is causing this. This doesn't just happen for no reason.
- Solution: Find out what the problem is.
Alright, this is what I came up with. I think the reason why this keeps repeating is because there is something that the women don't like about me. My senses are telling me that I might be being too forceful or pushy when it comes to talking to them, which may be causing them to scare off.
If I can somehow get the experience on how to play a woman's emotions, I can probably get any woman I want to. I believe the key here is to know how to play a woman's heart, and once I do that, women will be flocking around me.
What I need to do is find out the key to a woman's heart, I believe this will cause them not to run off and decide to stay with me. I just somehow have to find these keys.
Like violent said, she says I need to act like I don't need a woman, which means I need to play hard to get. I know for a fact this works because women were flocking around me during my anti-social years. This means that yes, you DEFINITELY need experience to pick up a woman.
If the woman "senses" that you are hard up, they will know it and tend to move on. Again, the key here is to know how to play the game.
btw, yes, I am into anime. I'll be joining an anime club soon.
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"Captain Obvious" here -- but have you ever had an "exit interview" with any of these girls to determine a common theme? This can be difficult, as I'm sure you're reluctant to ask "why" and they're reluctant to be completely honest about "why". Still, if this continues to be a problem for you, the women who are leaving are the best source of your information.
We've probably already discussed this before as well, but it seems like you have a deep interest in anime. Do you belong to any anime fan groups? Again, I realize this is an obvious question; it just seems like one place you might meet a girl who would share your interests.
I really do hope you find your answers on this. I could feed you all of the usual lines about you meeting someone "when the time is right" and that you should concentrate on your school and/or hobbies now, etc. But the need for love is overwhelming at times, and it tends to take center stage in our lives at times when we may not even want it to. I hope 2008 will be a good year for you in this regard -- hope to keep hearing from you as well.
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JanIAm: Alright, here is what I've came up with today. I sat down for a while today and thought about this, but this is what I came up with.
Let's look at this at different point of view.
- Problem: Women are running off/drifting away.
- Theory: There is something about me that is causing this. This doesn't just happen for no reason.
- Solution: Find out what the problem is.
Alright, this is what I came up with. I think the reason why this keeps repeating is because there is something that the women don't like about me. My senses are telling me that I might be being too forceful or pushy when it comes to talking to them, which may be causing them to scare off.
If I can somehow get the experience on how to play a woman's emotions, I can probably get any woman I want to. I believe the key here is to know how to play a woman's heart, and once I do that, women will be flocking around me.
What I need to do is find out the key to a woman's heart, I believe this will cause them not to run off and decide to stay with me. I just somehow have to find these keys.
Like violent said, she says I need to act like I don't need a woman, which means I need to play hard to get. I know for a fact this works because women were flocking around me during my anti-social years. This means that yes, you DEFINITELY need experience to pick up a woman.
If the woman "senses" that you are hard up, they will know it and tend to move on. Again, the key here is to know how to play the game.
btw, yes, I am into anime. I'll be joining an anime club soon.