I don't think it's my looks as I've been told I'm attractive. As for personality, I am a nice guy, so I don't see what else it could be.
It could be that I am running into the wrong kind of women. Like violent said, I am probably running into bad types of women, such as lesbians, gold diggers, etc. etc. But it still doesn't seem clear because it's happened too often. I don't know of any other guy that has had this problem and has had it repeat over and over.
But seriously, Josh. Getting back to what Vi was saying, I think she's on to something, there. Subconsciously, I wonder if you're letting these women know that they aren't measuring up to this character that you've worshipped for so long. You were pretty adamant about it: you posted about her twice in long, loving detail.
I'm not trying to make light of it by bringing this to your attention. I'm just trying to inject some reality into your perspective. It may indeed be that you're picking women who are not available, but the next question becomes WHY are you picking such women? Or is it actually YOU who is not available? Just something to consider. It sounds like you really do want someone in your life, but you may be setting very high standards that will make it difficult for anyone to qualify.
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I don't think it's my looks as I've been told I'm attractive. As for personality, I am a nice guy, so I don't see what else it could be.
It could be that I am running into the wrong kind of women. Like violent said, I am probably running into bad types of women, such as lesbians, gold diggers, etc. etc. But it still doesn't seem clear because it's happened too often. I don't know of any other guy that has had this problem and has had it repeat over and over.
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But seriously, Josh. Getting back to what Vi was saying, I think she's on to something, there. Subconsciously, I wonder if you're letting these women know that they aren't measuring up to this character that you've worshipped for so long. You were pretty adamant about it: you posted about her twice in long, loving detail.
I'm not trying to make light of it by bringing this to your attention. I'm just trying to inject some reality into your perspective. It may indeed be that you're picking women who are not available, but the next question becomes WHY are you picking such women? Or is it actually YOU who is not available? Just something to consider. It sounds like you really do want someone in your life, but you may be setting very high standards that will make it difficult for anyone to qualify.