OP: If what you say is true, there's probably something else common to all of those relationships: the TYPE of woman you were with. I bet if you look more closely, you'll see a pattern in them. There's probably something they all have in common. Could it be that they had shitty fathers/past partners and subconciously don't believe they deserve happiness, or don't know how to be in a healthy relationship, and so when you treat them well, they don't know what to do? Is it possible that you subconsciously seek out women who need to be cared for, but women who need to be cared for are that way because there is damage - and when there's damage, they leave because they don't know how to handle normality? If so, no wonder you're stuck in this cycle.
The only one you can change is you. If you need to be needed, you'll probably attract women who are emotionally injured. So work on yourself. Take a brutally honest self-evaluation and see what you'd like to improve. There's something you're not seeing, but I bet that once you focus on self-improvement, a better woman will come along, because she will see and sense that you're trying to be a better person. You'll attract someone who knows how she deserves to be treated, instead of one who eventually takes off with a loser.
I also agree with someone else's comment that men who try too hard are really off-putting, so just relax and be yourself. A healthy woman knows when you're not, so don't be afraid to be YOU, instead of trying to anticipate what you think she wants. :)
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OP: If what you say is true, there's probably something else common to all of those relationships: the TYPE of woman you were with. I bet if you look more closely, you'll see a pattern in them. There's probably something they all have in common. Could it be that they had shitty fathers/past partners and subconciously don't believe they deserve happiness, or don't know how to be in a healthy relationship, and so when you treat them well, they don't know what to do? Is it possible that you subconsciously seek out women who need to be cared for, but women who need to be cared for are that way because there is damage - and when there's damage, they leave because they don't know how to handle normality? If so, no wonder you're stuck in this cycle.
The only one you can change is you. If you need to be needed, you'll probably attract women who are emotionally injured. So work on yourself. Take a brutally honest self-evaluation and see what you'd like to improve. There's something you're not seeing, but I bet that once you focus on self-improvement, a better woman will come along, because she will see and sense that you're trying to be a better person. You'll attract someone who knows how she deserves to be treated, instead of one who eventually takes off with a loser.
I also agree with someone else's comment that men who try too hard are really off-putting, so just relax and be yourself. A healthy woman knows when you're not, so don't be afraid to be YOU, instead of trying to anticipate what you think she wants. :)