Women are friendlier to me when cold out

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Why do I seem to have a harder time getting women to smile and be friendly to me when it's warm out than when it's cold? Do women get more shallow when the weather warms up? And I know I'm not much to look at. Another reason I may be getting looked at in a more negative way when it's warm is that I'm still wearing my wool hat when it's warm (yes, I'm the same guy who wrote the other post about the wool hat). Could the higher levels of friendliness I get when it's cold also be linked to that I just look more normal wearing a wool hat when it's cold than when it's warm? I don't think that's all of it though, I think it's also due to my ugliness and women being more shallow when it's warm out. I swear I'm not imagining it, women really get less friendly to me when it's warm out.

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Sounds like your insecurity talking, and assuming the thoughts of others.

    1. People's reactions all depend on their own emotions. You smiling and waving isnt going to make a strangers shitty day better.

    2. Your body language. We're still animals. If your body language is unsettling, or you carry an unpleasant odor, etc, people will shy away from you.

    3. Cold weather actually mellows people out. We can't be as reckless and stupid if it means getting frost bitten.

    Personally, as a woman, if I saw someone wearing a wool hat in warm weather I'll think it's either:

    A. This person is having a bad hair day.
    B. This is his/her favorite hat.
    C. Both A and B.

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    • Alichael
      5 years ago

      Or D) That person's head must be stinking from sweat under that wool hat on a warm day, which is also off putting.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    They want you to shovel their driveway for $5 and a mug of hot chocolate.

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  • BrokenDisc
    5 years ago

    I think you're overthinking it. I have a question though. Do you expect unconditional friendliness towards you from strangers? If so that may be part of your problem. I'm also interested to know what the interactions you're gauging this friendliness on are.

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    • Alichael
      5 years ago

      Really, why is this op worrying about it so much? He's probably putting people off because they're smelling his insecurity a mile away.

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  • GSuri
    5 years ago

    What's your body like? Maybe you have an unattractive body that is covered up in winter making you seem more attractive? Also wearing a wool hat in summer is whack

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      So you think me wearing the wool hat in 70 degree weather is definitely part of what's making women look at me all weird? That's good, at least I'm getting some answers now. Nothing is worse than not knowing what's causing women to get weirded out by me.

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