Woman having sex...as a man.

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...As a woman, I've dreamnt on a few occassions that I was having sex...but as a man. I wasn't "trapped inside a man's body" or having conscious thoughts as my female self -- I was THE MAN. Somehow, I'm able to observe my male alter, who is also the opposite of me in ethnicity. There were wild sensations I'd never had before...I could actually feel the woman's muscles squeezing my shaft as I thrusted, and a "clenching" in my stomach...I was even slowing my strokes so as to will myself not to cum!! It was damned hot, and oddly comforting. Upon waking, I thought very little of the woman, only my male self...What does that mean...?

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  • xxObscurities
    14 years ago

    I do the same thing sometimes. I wouldn't worry about it.

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      ...Good to know. I'm just curious as to why I started having this particular dream. I don't buy into all things Freud, but it does give me pause...

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  • Alquen
    14 years ago

    That's cool. Reminds me of the time I had a dream that I was a woman (I'm a guy IRL) having sex with a man and I could actually feel myself being penetrated (though unfortunately the dream ended before orgasm).

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      ...Hm, too bad for the interruption. Maybe your subconcious wasn't quite on board for the party and woke you up.

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  • Nazuro
    14 years ago

    Maybe you were a man in a a past life?

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      ...I would be interested in hearing from any men if the physical sensations I described are true to male arousal, etc. Then I'll be REALLY freaked, in a good way.

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  • Schythl
    14 years ago

    That's an awesome dream.

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      ...Haha, thanks. Apparently, I must've thought so, too, as I have had a few more follow-ups.

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  • freethinkerguy
    14 years ago

    Just get a strap on. Some guys like this. It's called pegging.

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      ...Interesting suggestion, but I don't get the impression that I want to dominate a man. I appear to BE the man in the dreams and I'm w/a woman.

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  • spyderr
    14 years ago

    well yeah that is a good point about ethnic opposites. I don't know what you mean unless you're black/white and the guy was white/black.

    but whatever... i think that's quite an odd dream so I'm going to rate it not normal. however I would be very shocked if no one else had had a similar dream!

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      ...It is quite odd, thanks! Since posting this, I have had two other similiar dreams, though the scenarios/"characters" have varied. Still the man, tho!!

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  • Jim_Pfoss
    15 years ago

    Hmmm... Never thought about ethnic opposites. I suppose I can imagine black vs white, but what if you're indian, chinese or eskimo?

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    • DreamInMetaphors
      13 years ago

      Jim_Pfoss: ...I wouldn't think it would be that difficult for those ethnicities to imagine their opposites as long as they had some sort of exposure to them.

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