You are only 19 and this girl has a lot of baggage and a big booze problem. Maybe she will change. Maybe not. And maybe (and personally I think more likely) it will just get worse.
You don't have a crystal ball, no one does, but what is obvious is this is a relationship with a lot of risks (for nothing but problems) and not a lot of promise. Living with an alcoholic is not pretty.
So instead of focusing on her (PS - notice how she is already making you take responsibility) try refocusing on yourself. Is this high risk relationship what you want? Can you do no better?
You are young. Why settle so quickly to take on someone else's problems? Frankly, I'd say move on and leave.
Will my girlfriend grow out of her drinking habit?
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You are only 19 and this girl has a lot of baggage and a big booze problem. Maybe she will change. Maybe not. And maybe (and personally I think more likely) it will just get worse.
You don't have a crystal ball, no one does, but what is obvious is this is a relationship with a lot of risks (for nothing but problems) and not a lot of promise. Living with an alcoholic is not pretty.
So instead of focusing on her (PS - notice how she is already making you take responsibility) try refocusing on yourself. Is this high risk relationship what you want? Can you do no better?
You are young. Why settle so quickly to take on someone else's problems? Frankly, I'd say move on and leave.