I guess im lucky in that my boyfriend doesnt talk to any of his ex's, I really don't think i'd be able to bite my tongue if he did, it would drive me mad and i would have to say something. So i think you must have a lot of self control to be able to keep it to yourself. What do you mean by take it into your own hands, would you end it with her?
I have learnt that if i stop and think about things rather then just stressing out or going mad then things don't seem as bad as they once did. But i do agree that some things are just unacceptable to people and no amount of calming down time will make it go away. So if her getting a lift after work hugely bothers you it will work out a lot better in the long run if you let her know.
Will i ever just chill the hell out?
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I guess im lucky in that my boyfriend doesnt talk to any of his ex's, I really don't think i'd be able to bite my tongue if he did, it would drive me mad and i would have to say something. So i think you must have a lot of self control to be able to keep it to yourself. What do you mean by take it into your own hands, would you end it with her?
I have learnt that if i stop and think about things rather then just stressing out or going mad then things don't seem as bad as they once did. But i do agree that some things are just unacceptable to people and no amount of calming down time will make it go away. So if her getting a lift after work hugely bothers you it will work out a lot better in the long run if you let her know.