Will deleting him from my facebook helps me to forget him?

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I'm a university sophomore. I have a huge crush on my coursemate since last year. We never really talk.

I notice that he's been watching me lately. A lot of my Facebook status messages were indirectly about him. I don't know if he reads them. It feels awkward everytime I see him in class. And I really hate this kind of situation because I think, to have feelings for someone, it should be a natural and happy thing. Whereas in my case, it always makes me upset.

I'm going to have my final exam in one more week and I couldn't take my eyes off his Facebook profile. I didn't realize I spent most of my times checking his updates. I know, I'm stupid.

The main point here is... I want to remove him from my friends list so that I could have my focus on my studies. But I'm afraid I will regret. But if I don't, my mind won't stop thinking about him and my hands won't stop clicking to his page. Can anybody help me on this?

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  • WetBrownStain
    14 years ago | pl

    If he's in your class then you can talk to him over facebook about something in your class or your exams and that would be a good ice breaker and you wouldn't have to do it face to face. You seem shy so that might be a good way to start the convo for you. Then next time you see him talking to him would be a little easier. Take the convo from school work to something a little more personal. Not too personal, but a little more so he gets to know you. Just talk about something funny that happened or something.

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  • 4w04se
    14 years ago | pl

    Deleting him would let you get good grades no more than that.. But, if you are too obsessed about him.. Why not be friends with him? Maybe when you get to know him more, he'd turn out to be nothing of what you thought.. or maybe other wise.. :) you never know unless you try and break the ice

    Anyway, let's say you did delete him.. You will constantly think about it in your head .. wondering if he noticed that you kicked him out of your friends' list or not

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  • Giovanna
    14 years ago | pl

    delete him?
    focus on your studies.. it's only a week...
    then you can re-add him after ^_^

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