Based on what you've said, you two have/had a connection. Romantically though I don't see things forming. It'd be bad for you to wait for him and it'd be worse if you leaped at the opportunity if he were to become single. This guy seems rather oblivious of how you feel from his actions at times. Don't get me wrong he might be a great friend, but mayyyybe not as a partner.
I dated someone who was my friend for years. One day I felt I should confess and I did. She was so excited because she felt the same way but didn't think I did and was scared confessing would harm our friendship. When we started dating she began behaving differently towards me. It turned out she was used to boyfriends that only came when they wanted something from her. She felt weird talking more than once or twice a week (including text). I tried being understanding but I would also stand my ground when I felt she was going too far based on negative past experiences such as, when we were friends she'd come to me about everything going on in her and her loved ones lives. When we became official it all stopped. She went to someone else for everything. I felt demoted for being her boyfriend. We made incredible friends but we made awful partners.
Will best friend ever realize I’m in love w/ him despite trying to hide it?
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Based on what you've said, you two have/had a connection. Romantically though I don't see things forming. It'd be bad for you to wait for him and it'd be worse if you leaped at the opportunity if he were to become single. This guy seems rather oblivious of how you feel from his actions at times. Don't get me wrong he might be a great friend, but mayyyybe not as a partner.
I dated someone who was my friend for years. One day I felt I should confess and I did. She was so excited because she felt the same way but didn't think I did and was scared confessing would harm our friendship. When we started dating she began behaving differently towards me. It turned out she was used to boyfriends that only came when they wanted something from her. She felt weird talking more than once or twice a week (including text). I tried being understanding but I would also stand my ground when I felt she was going too far based on negative past experiences such as, when we were friends she'd come to me about everything going on in her and her loved ones lives. When we became official it all stopped. She went to someone else for everything. I felt demoted for being her boyfriend. We made incredible friends but we made awful partners.