Wifes constant questions

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Is it normal for your wife to just fire off rapid questions one after another. Ill be reading something she will come up

"what do you think we should do about tomorrow"

"i dont know"

"Did you see the pictures I took?"

"No"

"...do you need anything?..."

"No"

"...whats wrong?"

"Nothing"

"Anyway your mom called. I think we should buy a new rug for the bathroom."

"Ok"

"What do you think?"

"Uh.....Idk"

"Are u mad?"

"No"

"Whats wrong?"

"NOTHING! Im reading this thing.."

".....anyway what do you think we should do about the car?"

I get shes trying to be nice but why? It takes too much brain power to answer questions after working 13 hours a day. Why does it have to be 100 questions? Just give me a minute to chill lady.

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  • Boojum
    2 years ago

    That dialogue is interesting. What it reads like is her desperately trying to reconnect with you after being apart for hours, and you stonewalling her and refusing to engage. But maybe that's unfair, and you weren't actually so curt and dismissive. If you're in a relaxed frame of mind, you replay that exchange and try to put yourself in her shoes, how does it make you feel?

    There might be some differences in basic communication styles, but if you've managed to at least tolerate each other for fifteen years, I guess there shouldn't be any huge conflicts there. Maybe you're just bored with her. Being together for as long as you two have almost inevitably leads to that if you don't put in some work to avoid it.

    I wonder what would happen if you made a conscious effort to focus entirely on her for a while - even just half an hour - when you got home from work, and only then retreated into a book or went off for some other form of me-time for a while.

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  • fatok
    2 years ago

    you need to go home and fuck the shit out of her daily. That will shut her up

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  • 12345678912
    2 years ago

    It may be or not be normal i don't know but it's certainly usual.

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  • olderdude-xx
    2 years ago

    This is typical... While there are many books out there on the subject: I'd start with "His Needs, Her Needs" by Willard Harley, Jr.

    You both need to read it (get 2 copies, and allow for reading speed differences).

    The 2nd book I recommend is: "The 5 Love Languages
    by Gary Chapmann. Again you need 2 copies.

    I wish you well with your relationship.

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  • litelander8
    2 years ago

    How long have y’all been together that she doesn’t know you require down time?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      Literally 15 years

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