Wife wants an open relationship. i'm fine with it, but...

My wife and I have been married for nearly a year now, and for the most part, it's been good. We both have diagnosed mental disorders that sometimes clash with one another, but that's beside the point.

We're both sexual people, and we both like men and women. Since even before we got married, the idea of an open relationship has been lightly discussed, but no serious plans were ever made. One of her big concerns was that she felt I shouldn't be denied sexual gratification from men, but I've always maintained that it isn't a huge deal.

Recently, our sex life has slowed down a bit. Mostly because I've been working a lot lately (so much that I've been given two raises in two months and am up for a promotion in the near future). I mean I feel bad that I'm not always in the mood, but I'm just tired a lot lately.

Yesterday she brought up the open relationship idea again, more seriously than ever before. She claims it's because I simply don't fulfill her sexual needs anymore, so she wants to begin seeing a few people on the side, with me having similar privileges.

I'm completely okay with the idea, to be honest. In fact the thought of other men wanting her is arousing. But the only caveat is I feel like I'd only be okay with her sleeping with other men if I met and liked them.

Seriously, they'd need to be the kind of guys I could have beers with and even be friends with. In fact, the three (or more) of us hanging out and having a good time, and the night ending with them hooking up, sounds cool to me.

Keep in mind that this isn't a cuckhold fetish or anything like that, because cuckhold situations have a tendancy to be degrading and humiliating to the husband; something I'm far too high on myself to tolerate.

Anyway, normal?

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Based on 168 votes (95 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • LornaMae

    If you both agree on it then it seems normal enough.

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  • Niceneasy

    My wife is beautiful and the most sensuous woman I have ever known. When she climaxes, she howls with pleasure while her face and body bucks and contorts as though a priest were exorcising a devil from her. I love seeing her have sex with another guy but only when we are out of town or on vacation.

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    • hardik

      when u r open minded then no worry

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  • mltradams

    absolutely normal, Pal.. goodluck

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    Actually, YOU should be the one choosing the guys for her. There's the risk that she'll just leave you for the guy she wants.

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  • krollman

    Seeing someone on the side turns into seeing you on the side. Idk, I have too much pride and care too much for the person I love. I don't think its normal, evolution in mind anyway.

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  • green_boogers

    Swinging might be better. Less chance of destroying your partnership.

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  • tough1

    Bad idea

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  • muffdiver1

    I find women need dick a lot more then men need fanny :)

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  • WishIWasHere

    Way back in the day. I was the other guy in someones open relationship. She was hot I was young. He didn't mind. How much more of a friend do you want, he shared his wife . Just be honest and open. Have Fun

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  • missy100

    Being open and honest with each other is key for this to be successful. If you both agree on the ground rules, enjoy the sex with whoever you like.

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