You need to talk to your wife about her boundaries. You should never let her get in between you and your family just because she doesn't like them. It's not "kosher". You should tell her that you love her but here are some things she needs to deal with: 1. you love your family and they will ALWAYS be your family, and it will stay that way until you both are alive. It is also not good that she breaks ties with her family members as well. 2. You are a man. You're gonna need to spend time alone, and if one of your hobbies is playing video games, she needs to accept that about you; just make sure you both MAKE TIME FOR DATE NIGHT. 3. again, you're a guy and you need friends to talk to as well, to vent, hang out, do guy stuff; just make sure you have her meet your guy friends so she can trust them, AND trust you WITH them. If all else fails, you both need counseling. She may also need to see somebody for her self-esteem issues.
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You need to talk to your wife about her boundaries. You should never let her get in between you and your family just because she doesn't like them. It's not "kosher". You should tell her that you love her but here are some things she needs to deal with: 1. you love your family and they will ALWAYS be your family, and it will stay that way until you both are alive. It is also not good that she breaks ties with her family members as well. 2. You are a man. You're gonna need to spend time alone, and if one of your hobbies is playing video games, she needs to accept that about you; just make sure you both MAKE TIME FOR DATE NIGHT. 3. again, you're a guy and you need friends to talk to as well, to vent, hang out, do guy stuff; just make sure you have her meet your guy friends so she can trust them, AND trust you WITH them. If all else fails, you both need counseling. She may also need to see somebody for her self-esteem issues.