You're absolutely justified in feeling this way. However, unfortunately I also agree with many other posters that men are generally like that immediately after becoming a father.
This is a life-changing moment for him and for the first time in his life, he will realise his purpose in life and now it will all be about the baby. I don't have children and even then when I meet my nieces, I ignore my brother and my sister-in-law and go straight for the children. That's jsut the way men area.
What you need to do is firstly to speak to other new mothers and see how they're coping with it. You'll feel much better knowing that you're not alone in this. They might have some great advice for you. I will never pretend to think I know what it's like being a new mother, but I CAN advise you to speak to others who have gone through the same experience. Who knows, you might make some life-long friends in the process. Don't give up on your husband. It's just a phase.
why wont he be intimate with me?
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You're absolutely justified in feeling this way. However, unfortunately I also agree with many other posters that men are generally like that immediately after becoming a father.
This is a life-changing moment for him and for the first time in his life, he will realise his purpose in life and now it will all be about the baby. I don't have children and even then when I meet my nieces, I ignore my brother and my sister-in-law and go straight for the children. That's jsut the way men area.
What you need to do is firstly to speak to other new mothers and see how they're coping with it. You'll feel much better knowing that you're not alone in this. They might have some great advice for you. I will never pretend to think I know what it's like being a new mother, but I CAN advise you to speak to others who have gone through the same experience. Who knows, you might make some life-long friends in the process. Don't give up on your husband. It's just a phase.