Ok, look. I'm extremely attracted to women. I'm much, much more attracted to women than I am to men. But I don't stare at women, regardless of what they're wearing, because I try to be polite.
If you think staring at people is socially acceptable, you don't really understand social standards of behaviour. Given your posts, though, that doesn't surprise me one bit.
Well that's your choice. You can't expect someone to not stare at someone revealing the things that they like to see. That's like saying "Oh my God, I know this amazing secret, but I'm not telling you", obviously they will want to know and continue asking
Yeah, well our social standards back in time were that women were not to wear such revealing clothing, yet that is now made as acceptable.
Again, you can't do something people like to see, then expect them not to look. That's like a band playing in the middle of the street, and then saying "Don't listen, cover your ears, keep walking, I don't want you to hear, stop being rude".
I fully understand social standard behavior, but I won't allow people to think they can do something that will obvious get a reaction, then complain that they are reacting.
Again, explain. You keep saying this, yet when I say "why", you seem to not want to answer.
Why would you tell me otherwise. Why do you like to dress that way? Then when you answe that, ask why to that answer, and so on. When you do that you'll get to the root of you wanting others to think you look good.
I will repeat this again. If this is about you gals, not men, then why not dress the way you like in your homes so that the only person you care about seeing you like that is yourself, then dress less revealing when going out in public? This way the only person you want to please is pleased, and since you don't think it's for the public to look at you, just yourself, chance in to less revealing clothes? That way you are pleased, and you are not stared at. Why wouldn't you do that? Why would you want to dress the way you like in public if you don't want the public to see you in a certain way?
I have seen women lie about all sorts of things, this being one of them. Women like to act like they are on some moral highground and victimized. Not all, but in my experience, most.
It isn't hard for me to understand at all. Everyone wants to look good and have people think they look good, women seem to be the only ones that dress for it, and then complain about it.
If. It's. Not. About. Us. Then. Dress. Revealing. In. Your. Home. So. That. The. Only. Person. That. You. Want. To. See. You. Can. See. You (you). Then. Dress. Less. Revealing. In. Public.
If it really was the case of it's not so everyone else sees you, then you would have no reason to dress provocativly in public where others can see you, and you'd dress the way you like in your home since you don't want the public staring at you, and then dress in a less revealing way so the public doesn't stare at you.
Why women wear tight fitting clothes?
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Ok, look. I'm extremely attracted to women. I'm much, much more attracted to women than I am to men. But I don't stare at women, regardless of what they're wearing, because I try to be polite.
If you think staring at people is socially acceptable, you don't really understand social standards of behaviour. Given your posts, though, that doesn't surprise me one bit.
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Well that's your choice. You can't expect someone to not stare at someone revealing the things that they like to see. That's like saying "Oh my God, I know this amazing secret, but I'm not telling you", obviously they will want to know and continue asking
Yeah, well our social standards back in time were that women were not to wear such revealing clothing, yet that is now made as acceptable.
Again, you can't do something people like to see, then expect them not to look. That's like a band playing in the middle of the street, and then saying "Don't listen, cover your ears, keep walking, I don't want you to hear, stop being rude".
I fully understand social standard behavior, but I won't allow people to think they can do something that will obvious get a reaction, then complain that they are reacting.
Again, explain. You keep saying this, yet when I say "why", you seem to not want to answer.
Why would you tell me otherwise. Why do you like to dress that way? Then when you answe that, ask why to that answer, and so on. When you do that you'll get to the root of you wanting others to think you look good.
I will repeat this again. If this is about you gals, not men, then why not dress the way you like in your homes so that the only person you care about seeing you like that is yourself, then dress less revealing when going out in public? This way the only person you want to please is pleased, and since you don't think it's for the public to look at you, just yourself, chance in to less revealing clothes? That way you are pleased, and you are not stared at. Why wouldn't you do that? Why would you want to dress the way you like in public if you don't want the public to see you in a certain way?
I have seen women lie about all sorts of things, this being one of them. Women like to act like they are on some moral highground and victimized. Not all, but in my experience, most.
It isn't hard for me to understand at all. Everyone wants to look good and have people think they look good, women seem to be the only ones that dress for it, and then complain about it.
If. It's. Not. About. Us. Then. Dress. Revealing. In. Your. Home. So. That. The. Only. Person. That. You. Want. To. See. You. Can. See. You (you). Then. Dress. Less. Revealing. In. Public.
If it really was the case of it's not so everyone else sees you, then you would have no reason to dress provocativly in public where others can see you, and you'd dress the way you like in your home since you don't want the public staring at you, and then dress in a less revealing way so the public doesn't stare at you.