Why the heck is she ignoring me?

My boyfriend's younger sister is immature to begin with, but now, she stopped talking to me. I never said anything negative about her in my life so there's no reason to hate me. 2 weeks back, she stopped talking to me on aim, deleted me from myspace and blocked me on facebook.

I'm 23, she is 20. I'm engaged to my fiance and dated him for 6 years, she got married 3 months back when she was 19 to a guy she dated for 5 months.
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This is the only thing that could have caused this:

I wrote on my facebook, "going to see _____ in concert in 3 days!" - a band she likes but a band I love and I've seen them live maybe 10 times now?

That's the last thing I ever said.
She did tell her friend that I was fat and ugly and told her brother to stop dating me because I wasn't right for him, but we've been dating since we were 18 so I doubt that'll change how we feel, lol.

Anyway, my friends think she dislikes me because it's the way I look and my lifestyle. I don't want her to hate me for this as I can't change it =[

LIFESTYLE
My family makes above average income and we live in a large house. My room has 2 couches, a chair, a desk, 3 dressers, a walk in closet and a queen size bed. I've been to over 200 concerts in my lifetime, my boyfriend and I are planning to move into a house right after marriage in 2012 and I told her that we were marrying in a castle and inviting over 200 guests(she asked). I went to college and graduated and have a fulltime high paying job, my boyfriend is almost done with college.

Her family makes very little income and they live in a small 1 story home that is literally sinking in don't ask how they were able to move in, I have no idea. Her bedroom is also the size of a bathroom. It's just got a twinsize bed and an AC, she's only been to 1 concert because she can't afford it, she lives in an apartment with her husband and her wedding took place in a courthouse, she never went to college, her husband never went to collge, her husband works a lot, she doesnt work and gets bored a lot.

LOOKS
I have soft wavy medium brown hair, large light brown eyes, clean skin, a healthy body I'm 130 at 5'4, white teeth, large breasts, and Im very fashion forward.

She has long greasy(she told me she likes the look if it) black straight hair that is down past her bottom that's dyed (shes actually a dirty blonde), she has greenish brown eyes, lots of acne, she has an underweight figure. She weighed herself in front of me maybe to show off? she was 93 pounds at 5'5, yellow teeth, flat chested but she wears padded bras a lot to make her look like a B cup, and she literally wears mickey mouse shirts or video game shirts because shes OBSESSED with video games.

So yeah, I told you everything. What do you think it is? I am not conceited or selfish, I just have NO IDEA why she hates me. I compliment her lots , I'm friendly..=[

Thank you!

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Comments ( 27 )
  • RawrzMmm

    I don't think I like you... I'm not completely sure what it is, annoying maybe, but I think it's something else. You do sound really conceited by the way you described yourself in pretty much the best light possible then attacked this girl by describing the bad traits... I don't see why you're bugged about her not talking to you, it seems as though you both don't like eachother anyways.

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  • You've posted several times on this. How can any of this bug you so much? I'm starting to think you are narcissistic!

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  • yayasaga

    I wouldn't like you either. What is your problem? Something is wring with you seriously.

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  • salvetori

    She, s just sad because she desn't have the type of lifestyle you do, maybe invite her to a concert or play a few games, she'll turn around. ;)

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  • moonstruck

    Seems the general consensus here is that there is something not quite right with you. Not sure what but just from reading this post you seem super fake personality wise and the girl can probably see right through your nice girl routine. I think the problem is you not her, sorry but you asked and the truth is hard to hear sometimes.

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  • Springs..

    tbh, you seem like a person who isent nice the way you discribed her so rudly and your too vain for most people to like i cant stand people like u that what that girl will think and yo boutgh her junk? and she didnt say thank you i wouldent for junk if she was a true freind and as you discribe as needy then buy her something decent.. :L

    ps..; hope your boyfriend shee's your true colours and finishes yu..

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    • Springs..

      See's*

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  • I wouldn't date u either what's wrong with u

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  • cassiewa

    Haha. No ones ever hated you? First off, it's probably because you have her dream life. She's jealous just like I would be if I were her. She probably doesn't want her brother to be with you because you're rich and probably demanding (not that you'd realize it- it's just how you've always lived.) she's looking out for her brother.

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  • Psychosocial

    conceited, narcissistic. I think you worry about the material things too much. Sounds like you are the one who needs to talk about big rooms, big houses, and fairytale weddings. Are you jealous of her?

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  • You seem to be a very materialistic girl... money doesnt buy happiness, she could be much much happier than you are. What happens if you lose your looks and money, you would be left with nothing because that is all that you go buy.
    And hey here is an idea is stead of bragging to her that you are going to a concert to someone who cant aford it take her!
    I dont think I would like you either. Man if my brother married someone like you I would think he was crazy and yell at him WHAT WERE YOU THINKING BOY!! :)

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  • Over confident

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  • yayasaga

    You shouldn't be allowed to post anymore if youre the same one posting the sane thing 1000x

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    • I'm confused. I made 2 posts. Where the heck do you see more than 2? I think you're getting me confused with the other chick.. that ain't me.

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  • gowila

    Get over it

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    • Mkay, let me clarify something for you. I only listed the looks/lifestyle to expose everything that could cause her to dislike me. I don't get what is so mean about me when I'm the least conceited person in the world. Not to mention, the girl I'm talking about was rude to my face and I was never ever mean to her! I even bought her loads of junk to make her happy, but she never even said thank you. I'm a very nice person so it's rude for you guys to start saying get over yourself when I don't even need to!

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  • soccer2

    She is jealous. But because u r marrying her bro u should try to be friends for his
    Sake. Don't show off in front of her and talk about the things u have that she doesn't. Maybe bring her to concerts with u or something. Make her feel welcome and just be nice no matter what. She is obviously very negative and perhaps
    Not so intelligent. So just be the better person and ignore her bs

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  • Sounds to me like she is very jelous of u. She probly wants to be u so much she just can't stand the sight of u, and just because u come from a totally differant lifestyle than her she may feel that she isn't anything to u and choses not to socialize with u. Hope it helped

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  • moomus

    Judgemental,much?

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  • randomjelly

    My god you're annoying!

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    • 53739

      lol...

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  • squeegela

    You seriously needs some help, this is post number 4, right? You have got to get over this or you are gonna make yourself sick! This is not a healthy reaction and you are making it more and more obvious why your sister in law to be doesn't like you. Let it go!!!!!!!

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    • I made 2 posts, not 4. Is there a post limit?

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  • runnergirl

    I think it's absurd to actually have headings called "lifestyle" and "looks". Is this how you view people's value? Our value--yours included--is so much more than these things! If you base it on these, things will fall apart for you if your home burns down or you lose your looks. Please try to move past this way of itemizing and valueing people, even yourself.

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  • Maybe she calls you fat and ugly because you are on the inside.

    Look, if you don't like your fiancee's family don't marry him or break off relationships with his family. Either that or get the hell off you high horse and be a *gasp* non judgemental nice person.

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  • inlove89

    Are you the same person who posted a similar post to this? Either way, I wouldn't like you either!

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    • I never had anyone dislike me. She's the first one. You don't know me and I am not conceited. I am the last person to ever be even remotely conceited.

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