This post was a little hard to follow. I'm a straight woman, but I've spent a lot of my youth hanging out in gay bars, because the majority of my friends were gay men. Anyway, I think it's unfortunately the case for many people both gay, and straight as well as male, and female that we oftentimes get hit on by the creepy people we have no interest in, and this is especially true for some of the more attractive people among us. Sometimes average to very attractive people find it hard to approach others, especially if the person they're interested in is really attractive, for reasons of that fear of rejection. It's interesting albeit annoying that the people we might find ourselves less attracted to seem to sometimes have an easier time approaching others, because some of those people have gotten over that fear of rejection that many if us seem to have regardless of how we look, our sex, or our sexual orientation.
I guess my advice to you would be to politely turn down unwanted suitors regardless of who they are, but if someone is actually bothering, and harassing you then please don't hesitate to tell the bartender, or bouncer.
WHY THE FUCK DO OLD LESBIANS HIT ON ME?
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This post was a little hard to follow. I'm a straight woman, but I've spent a lot of my youth hanging out in gay bars, because the majority of my friends were gay men. Anyway, I think it's unfortunately the case for many people both gay, and straight as well as male, and female that we oftentimes get hit on by the creepy people we have no interest in, and this is especially true for some of the more attractive people among us. Sometimes average to very attractive people find it hard to approach others, especially if the person they're interested in is really attractive, for reasons of that fear of rejection. It's interesting albeit annoying that the people we might find ourselves less attracted to seem to sometimes have an easier time approaching others, because some of those people have gotten over that fear of rejection that many if us seem to have regardless of how we look, our sex, or our sexual orientation.
I guess my advice to you would be to politely turn down unwanted suitors regardless of who they are, but if someone is actually bothering, and harassing you then please don't hesitate to tell the bartender, or bouncer.