Why so much fighting?!

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Is it normal to have fights with your boyfriend really often? Because me and my boyfriend will get together for a few months or even weeks, then one of use will get mad over something dumb and we will brake up and not talk for a few weeks/months, then we get over it and date again. This has happened 5 times...is this normal? I really do love him but i dont know if this is normal or healthy..

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I agree with the sentiments here. Not healthy. Move on.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    not normal. it's normal to fight sometimes, but not that much. my brother and his ex were on and off for about 3 years, because they fought so much, and plus she was a crackhead. but eventually they broke up for good.

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  • Kayli
    14 years ago

    Not normal! Sounds like both of you have some maturing up to do. You have to pick your battles and decide what is worth being upset over. Never waste your time being upset over something little when you could be happy. Good luck!

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  • txchick
    14 years ago

    No it's not normal. I was in a similar situation that ended recently. I put up with it for a year and it never got better. It may be hard but I suggest dumping him before you waste any more time.

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  • TDG
    14 years ago

    You both need to move on, not healthy.

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  • grumpybarbie
    14 years ago

    It's done

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It's totally normal to fight with your boyfriend, but if it's going on like your talking about, I think it time to call quits

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  • sully611
    14 years ago

    No offense but he sounds possesed

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  • Jessica1381
    14 years ago

    It sounds like you may want to concider moving on. Healthy relationships don't fight with eachother all the time and they talk through thier problems so they can work through them and make thier relationship stronger. Breaking up all the time should tell you something and I am betting deep down u know the Anderson to your own question! Everyone deserves to be happy and I bet if you two stayed broken up for a year or so eithr u will find someone who makes you happy and doesn't argue with you all the time or maybe you and your boyfriend will realize that all the fighting and breaking up isn't working and will find a newer healthier way to work through things! Good luck Hun!!!

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