Yeah you have to be careful and try not to give anyone a reason to want to ruin your life. That's what I do just try to be reasonable when people get mad at me. I dont understand the whole divorce rate. I feel like if my wife cheated on me we would work it out. Idk why thats such a deal breaker to everyone. It sucks but its not the end of the world.
Unfortunately there are people out there who need no reason to wanna ruin someones life. It could simply be you got in their way for a promotion, got the girl they wanted or spent more time with a friend you share. People are highly susceptible to impulsive behaviour. What makes it worse is when you had mental illnesses like sociopathy and psychopathy. Being capable of remaining reasonable in a world filled with unreasonable people is admirable. The fact that you found a partner that's capable of doing the same along with having such a trusting bond is something I deeply respect. Ultimately the major dealbreaker is this, the thought that when someone cheats on their partner it means they knew they were taking action on something that would cause emotional pain and sadness on the one they're supposed to care for above all others. That kind of disregard for wellbeing is a major indicator and warning sign that the person seeks to only benefit themself without consideration of others. That's the opposite of how a human being is supposed to be let alone a partner.
I dont feel like she would intentionally be trying to hurt me by cheating. I think if she was trying to hurt me she would not attempt to hide it. If she wanted to hurt me she would tell me what she was doing. I see where you're coming from tho.
By the sounds of it your wife is faithful anyway. Hypothetically however, in the eyes of most people, disloyalty/unfaithfulness is in itself an act expressing ones willingness to do so as they please unphased by how it'd affect their loved one(s).
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Yeah you have to be careful and try not to give anyone a reason to want to ruin your life. That's what I do just try to be reasonable when people get mad at me. I dont understand the whole divorce rate. I feel like if my wife cheated on me we would work it out. Idk why thats such a deal breaker to everyone. It sucks but its not the end of the world.
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Unfortunately there are people out there who need no reason to wanna ruin someones life. It could simply be you got in their way for a promotion, got the girl they wanted or spent more time with a friend you share. People are highly susceptible to impulsive behaviour. What makes it worse is when you had mental illnesses like sociopathy and psychopathy. Being capable of remaining reasonable in a world filled with unreasonable people is admirable. The fact that you found a partner that's capable of doing the same along with having such a trusting bond is something I deeply respect. Ultimately the major dealbreaker is this, the thought that when someone cheats on their partner it means they knew they were taking action on something that would cause emotional pain and sadness on the one they're supposed to care for above all others. That kind of disregard for wellbeing is a major indicator and warning sign that the person seeks to only benefit themself without consideration of others. That's the opposite of how a human being is supposed to be let alone a partner.
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I dont feel like she would intentionally be trying to hurt me by cheating. I think if she was trying to hurt me she would not attempt to hide it. If she wanted to hurt me she would tell me what she was doing. I see where you're coming from tho.
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By the sounds of it your wife is faithful anyway. Hypothetically however, in the eyes of most people, disloyalty/unfaithfulness is in itself an act expressing ones willingness to do so as they please unphased by how it'd affect their loved one(s).