Both men and women have a portion who prefer to deal with things themselves, I'm sure in your experience a great deal (if not all) have been that way. Based on both what I've experienced though as well as the studies I've learned, There are many men who don't seek help due to the fact that they don't know where to go for it or society/friends/family will judge them or see them differently. There's a stigma in the world which says that in order to be a man you need to toughen up and deal with emotions on your own. We can't be seen crying and CERTAINLY can't reach out for help. The good news is that over the generations that view is fading. These days more and more are okay with reaching out (of course this depends on the family/area they grew up in). As we grow up, we find ourselves needing such services more and more. The world can be a very unforgiving place and so, while it may be uncommon in your area, I can assure you that there are men who need the help.
Disagree! I think that's actually a positive quality in men. Fucking man up and deal with it yourself. Don't make your problems anyone else problems. Most men are becoming more of pussies cause they just blame shit on society.
Look, I understand that one shouldn't put their issues onto others. That's fair. If someone however, expresses a willingness to be lent on (metaphorically), or is a professional whose job is to be a vent for the feelings and thoughts of another, then by all means it should be reinforced that you're not any less of a man for reaching out when a branch is offered.
Playing the blame game is in itself a poor method to improvement. That said, can you really say society as a whole hasn't played a role in the negative frame of mind people that need help have? It's true there are many other contributing factors but I wanna make sure we can agree that this is part of the problem. In order for people to admit their own poor choices and misconceptions, society as a whole needs to realise its own misconceptions and poor choices.
Again with ten first paragraph, its makes sense what your saying and why you think that. But even though I follow most of the logic, I do not agree that "your no less of a man" if you seek help for mental shit. It obviously depends what it is and there are some cases like military PTSD or sexual abuse but let's be real, that's quite a minority. Fucking half the people are probably getting "bullied" and "marginalized" and need a fuckin guy in a lab coat to agree that uts societies fault to make them feel better.
Society has made it harder, but it's still in your power. It does make you "nothing of a man" to get mental help when you don't need it, but it does make you *less* of a man. In my opinion of course!
Damn that might be the harshest thing I've heard on this site. You're definitely the 'raised like a Spartan' type of person, very tough love. I wish you luck in life.
Oh well welcome to this site then! It must be your first day cause this is fucking lightweight shit.
There was a post about would you rather kill 50 puppies or 50 human children and fucking MORE THAN HALF of people would rather fucking kill kids. That's what I call toxic. Fucking guy I was arguing with on that post told me to stop swatting mosquitoes looool.
Why should you become a member of the organisation who helps women?
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Both men and women have a portion who prefer to deal with things themselves, I'm sure in your experience a great deal (if not all) have been that way. Based on both what I've experienced though as well as the studies I've learned, There are many men who don't seek help due to the fact that they don't know where to go for it or society/friends/family will judge them or see them differently. There's a stigma in the world which says that in order to be a man you need to toughen up and deal with emotions on your own. We can't be seen crying and CERTAINLY can't reach out for help. The good news is that over the generations that view is fading. These days more and more are okay with reaching out (of course this depends on the family/area they grew up in). As we grow up, we find ourselves needing such services more and more. The world can be a very unforgiving place and so, while it may be uncommon in your area, I can assure you that there are men who need the help.
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Disagree! I think that's actually a positive quality in men. Fucking man up and deal with it yourself. Don't make your problems anyone else problems. Most men are becoming more of pussies cause they just blame shit on society.
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Look, I understand that one shouldn't put their issues onto others. That's fair. If someone however, expresses a willingness to be lent on (metaphorically), or is a professional whose job is to be a vent for the feelings and thoughts of another, then by all means it should be reinforced that you're not any less of a man for reaching out when a branch is offered.
Playing the blame game is in itself a poor method to improvement. That said, can you really say society as a whole hasn't played a role in the negative frame of mind people that need help have? It's true there are many other contributing factors but I wanna make sure we can agree that this is part of the problem. In order for people to admit their own poor choices and misconceptions, society as a whole needs to realise its own misconceptions and poor choices.
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Again with ten first paragraph, its makes sense what your saying and why you think that. But even though I follow most of the logic, I do not agree that "your no less of a man" if you seek help for mental shit. It obviously depends what it is and there are some cases like military PTSD or sexual abuse but let's be real, that's quite a minority. Fucking half the people are probably getting "bullied" and "marginalized" and need a fuckin guy in a lab coat to agree that uts societies fault to make them feel better.
Society has made it harder, but it's still in your power. It does make you "nothing of a man" to get mental help when you don't need it, but it does make you *less* of a man. In my opinion of course!
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Damn that might be the harshest thing I've heard on this site. You're definitely the 'raised like a Spartan' type of person, very tough love. I wish you luck in life.
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Oh well welcome to this site then! It must be your first day cause this is fucking lightweight shit.
There was a post about would you rather kill 50 puppies or 50 human children and fucking MORE THAN HALF of people would rather fucking kill kids. That's what I call toxic. Fucking guy I was arguing with on that post told me to stop swatting mosquitoes looool.