Why should you become a member of the organisation who helps women?

All I'm saying is that both genders are in the wrong here. A lot of women come out hating men, and men come out hating women. There should be more organisations aimed at helping their respective target groups without the mentality that either gender is worse than the other. Equality is a very misused word these days. You see women who call themselves 'feminists' saying all men should be chemically castrated or kept in prisons. There a true feminists though, ones who hold the belief of equal pay, equal rights equal ability to defend yourself (hit back etc) no matter who's attacking you. Same goes for men, they EXPECT women to know their place (eg incels) whilst there are others who just wanna have the same ability to get help after being sexually assaulted without being told "Men can't get raped!". A great example I can give personally is the mentality society holds towards men working in the childcare sector. You can be fired for doing something your female co-worker does if you can't prove without a shadow of a doubt you weren't doing anything questionable. The world as a whole needs to judge less and open more doors for both genders to have their voices heard and the rights cared for.

It's honestly a serious problem. These days the only way to ensure safety is to get your sexual partner to sign a contract agreeing to participate in sexual activity. Celebrities and the rich get the worst of it. Gold diggers looking to get pregnant so they can take advantage of the child support. There are many vicious people out there..

The mentality of men working with children is simply appalling. I've had all my security checks and police clearances, I've had years training and worked hard to get where I am, yet there's still (and always will be) the lingering mentality from onlookers that I'm a suspicious character. My female co-workers see a baby crying due to a fall and picks them up and giving them a reassuring, comfort hold that all carers and parents do. When I see a child crying however for the same reason, I have to get a female co-worker or risk facing the wrath of a biased/judgemental parent. Isn't it sad? Breaks my heart.

Both men and women have a portion who prefer to deal with things themselves, I'm sure in your experience a great deal (if not all) have been that way. Based on both what I've experienced though as well as the studies I've learned, There are many men who don't seek help due to the fact that they don't know where to go for it or society/friends/family will judge them or see them differently. There's a stigma in the world which says that in order to be a man you need to toughen up and deal with emotions on your own. We can't be seen crying and CERTAINLY can't reach out for help. The good news is that over the generations that view is fading. These days more and more are okay with reaching out (of course this depends on the family/area they grew up in). As we grow up, we find ourselves needing such services more and more. The world can be a very unforgiving place and so, while it may be uncommon in your area, I can assure you that there are men who need the help.