Why is sex so important in peoples life that if someone not having it

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there's something wrong with you.

ok frist this is about me and my sex life.

i'm 25,very attractive,and everywhere i go,sex seem to be important.beautiful girls like me,and want me.i was told quote(these girls watching you man,find a girl).

i suffer from social anxiety.i do have sexual feelings but i rather deal with them through masturbate(even tho i do perfer the real thing),but i have my own indivisual issue's.and in doing so i'm called retard,stupid,slow,a pussy,many things cause i don't have sex.this been going on for years(and really these people ain't no help).

i do want a girl but scared to even let people know i got a girl friend scared to even be seen with my girlfriend anyway.(not now,that's a long story).

is this normal social anxiety are what.and is anyone else dealing with the same thing.

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  • ExoticMayanSaturday
    9 years ago | pl

    Yes it's normal and I have it too. Some people just feel like they NEED it because everyone makes a big deal out of it. I know where your coming from though I get tons of compliments from both sexes and hit on but it's hard sometimes because being socially awkward or nervous makes me feel like other people think I'm an airhead or stupid.

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    • dragonfruit33
      9 years ago | pl

      Yeah they just hammer on other people about how sexually inadequate they are because their own sex life is lacking. It is called scapegoating enforced by bullies with truly low self-esteem because they aren't getting any themselves be they married or just stuck in a truly loveless relationship. Even though people might look like cute couples on the outside holding hands for the world to see...does not mean that they are truly holding or living in each other's hearts...it is just an illusion..they are truly single when in an unreturned love relationship basis.

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    • stevieo
      9 years ago | pl

      yes that's so true also with me.thanks i feel better,knowing i'm not the only one.

      wats your email so i can email u.

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    • polopo
      9 years ago | pl

      Finally! I find people like me, I feel "normal" now

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  • mlbryan44
    9 years ago | pl

    I bet you suck some serious cock!

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  • mlenny
    3 years ago | pl

    I'm gonna have to overlook how incredibly incoherent this is and assume you're asking why people consider YOUR sex life a free-game topic for THEIR discussion. The answer is: I don't know. I have wondered the same thing. I think it's so important to them that they assume it is to everybody else. I'm a 28 year-old man and I could give a damn about sex, personally.
    A nd people seem to have difficulty with that idea. But what fucking matter of theirs is it, anyways? You need more mature friends, dude. Grown-ups don't act this way.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    I do not get why people are being judgmental about this. Those people sound pretty dumb.

    Why do you keep having a girlfriend a secret? That doesn't seem logical and would piss off most girls. The only reason I could see anyone doing that is if their girlfriend was underage.

    It sounds like social skills are getting in your way as well. Try going to support groups and interact with others more often and it should get easier. It takes time to learn those things though so don't expect immediate results, but overtime interacting with others will pay off.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      no i never had a girlfriend underage its just social anxiety.and i felt this way sence i was 15 with all girls around my age.yes and social skils gettling in my way cause i been aroung alot of horrible people.

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  • fullhouse
    9 years ago | pl

    You must Solve your issues first, expecting people to just let u be is another thing. You say so yourself that u want the real thing too, so go n get it before ur youth leaves u. Trust me, I am an Indian guy who's studying for a longtime n dont have time for marriage n extramarital sex is not so easily happening so I know what it feels like. Masturbation is great way to release all the energy but then again why let your nervousness get in the way of having more fun?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      i dont know why i feel this way,i think about it many times,i think i need to be on some pills.im 25 and look 15 lol.and wat do u mean when u said"expecting people to just let u be is another thing" when it is my own problem not theres to but in.

      i had a girl tat i had sex with b4 on a regular basic and i kept that a secret 4 a long time.

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      • dragonfruit33
        9 years ago | pl

        See it is always the silent ones...be proud of yourself...they don't need to know what you do in the dark...it makes it more mysterious...as long as you know who you are...and don't let them bother you.

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  • dragonfruit33
    9 years ago | pl

    Don't be ashamed - you are a serious guy...people are intimidated by serious guys and bully them with their own shallowness out of insecurity which you remind them of inside of themselves.

    No you do not have to take pills...maybe just realize that bullies are conartists always telling other people to have sex and get married because misery loves company...they are into the idea that shallow loveless relationship only based on animalistic needs is normal.

    They are wrong...it is nonsense...they cannot stand to see you or anyone wait for the real thing and actually make it work. See they just jumped into the whole get a girlfriend and bang her to make kids and then marry her to be respectable in society...it is a cheap idea they bought into when it comes to how to live a life in order to please others and not yourself.

    As for social anxiety.. you are not crazy but actually quite sane - i believe anyone in their right mind is afraid of clowns and the hogwash they want to push down your throat... it is good you should be...not be afraid but rather cautious about not ending up as vain and purposeless in your love life as they are.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago | pl

      wow that was a very intellegent thing to say i would love to be your friend if possible

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