There's an old saying "If you don't give the dog a bone, he will eventually find one elsewhere". I feel there are several reasons for one to cheat (although I have never engaged in this activity and therefore I am not an expert on this topic). One example that comes to mind is when your not receiving the attention you desire from your significant other; if their not fulfilling your needs or desires then you are more likely to seek this fulfillment elsewhere. I also believe that some do it out of the excitement it may present as well as their natural drive to do something tabu or risky in nature. I have a friend that when I asked him why he keeps cheating on his spouse and he replied "It helps keep the fire burning at home, teaches me new things and make me desire my spouse more". Reading into his statement what I interrupted this as was; he uses cheating to find new methods as well as compare others to his spouse yet none have ever fulfilled his needs as she as. But my question is what if he finds one that does exceed what his wife fulfills, now what position has he placed himself in.
Why is it so many cheat?
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There's an old saying "If you don't give the dog a bone, he will eventually find one elsewhere". I feel there are several reasons for one to cheat (although I have never engaged in this activity and therefore I am not an expert on this topic). One example that comes to mind is when your not receiving the attention you desire from your significant other; if their not fulfilling your needs or desires then you are more likely to seek this fulfillment elsewhere. I also believe that some do it out of the excitement it may present as well as their natural drive to do something tabu or risky in nature. I have a friend that when I asked him why he keeps cheating on his spouse and he replied "It helps keep the fire burning at home, teaches me new things and make me desire my spouse more". Reading into his statement what I interrupted this as was; he uses cheating to find new methods as well as compare others to his spouse yet none have ever fulfilled his needs as she as. But my question is what if he finds one that does exceed what his wife fulfills, now what position has he placed himself in.