In my opinion, people cheat because they are selfish, weak, and don't sincerely love their significant other. Not enough to stay faithful to them anyway.
Cheating is really selfish, and why anyone would defend the act is beyond me. In my opinion, tempation is when I'm trying really hard to eat healthy and then I practically hear Mc Donald's calling my name, not being in a relationship, and being tempted to cheat. That's some serious shit.
I do agree that someone who's cheated before can change, I believe that anybody can change and better themselves if they want to badly enough, but I would never really be able to trust someone who once thought it was okay to cheat on somebody.
I simply would not understand how they justified their actions at that specific moment when they cheated, to me thereis no valid reason for cheating. I don't think all people that have made mistakes in life are absolute awful human beings but I do believe it's a really lousy thing to do to someone, break their heart like that.
To answer your question though, I'm not sure why people cheat, other than they are just plain selfish, like I mentioned in the beginning of my comment. I think people get bored and believe that if they don't get caught and it doesn't hurt anybody than it isn't wrong.
I'm with you here LadyOfDecay. Cheating is never acceptable for it destroys trust, families, integrity, etc. Cheating should never be condoned nor accepted. Cheating can come in numerous forms whether it by physical, emotional, verbal or type written. Cheating isn't always in the form of physical contact.
I don't see where anyone thumbed down my comment, nor do I know how to give a thumbs down. If I knew how to give a thumbs down there are a few occasions I would have when people are judging an individual for asking a question that is obviously very sincere to them.
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In my opinion, people cheat because they are selfish, weak, and don't sincerely love their significant other. Not enough to stay faithful to them anyway.
Cheating is really selfish, and why anyone would defend the act is beyond me. In my opinion, tempation is when I'm trying really hard to eat healthy and then I practically hear Mc Donald's calling my name, not being in a relationship, and being tempted to cheat. That's some serious shit.
I do agree that someone who's cheated before can change, I believe that anybody can change and better themselves if they want to badly enough, but I would never really be able to trust someone who once thought it was okay to cheat on somebody.
I simply would not understand how they justified their actions at that specific moment when they cheated, to me thereis no valid reason for cheating. I don't think all people that have made mistakes in life are absolute awful human beings but I do believe it's a really lousy thing to do to someone, break their heart like that.
To answer your question though, I'm not sure why people cheat, other than they are just plain selfish, like I mentioned in the beginning of my comment. I think people get bored and believe that if they don't get caught and it doesn't hurt anybody than it isn't wrong.
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I'm with you here LadyOfDecay. Cheating is never acceptable for it destroys trust, families, integrity, etc. Cheating should never be condoned nor accepted. Cheating can come in numerous forms whether it by physical, emotional, verbal or type written. Cheating isn't always in the form of physical contact.
I don't know why someone thumbed down your comment. I agree and it's well stated. I think we may have a guilt-ridden cheater in our midst.
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I don't see where anyone thumbed down my comment, nor do I know how to give a thumbs down. If I knew how to give a thumbs down there are a few occasions I would have when people are judging an individual for asking a question that is obviously very sincere to them.