Why is it normal that the courts treat men like crap?

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After 30 years of marriage and fully providing for my family, my wife leaves me. After being a stay at home mom for 10 years, and the a stay at home do nothing for 12 years, im getting raped by the courts. She has a masters degree and tge abilty to make a lot of money. She chose to stay at home until kids were full time in school, the she just kept staying at home. I begged her to get a job, she refused. She left me a year ago, got half the marital assests, alimony, and child suppport (I am ok with this), and half my retirement when I do retire. The judge said it was compensation for being a stay at home mom, even when all she did was drink the last 7 years. She also has hooked up with a rich divorced guy. Of course, as long as i am payonh alimony, she will not live or marry this guy.

I got hosed.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    Stay-at-home mums do work to keep the house clean, to raise the children and creating an environment that is safe and secure for the family. These parents' efforts are often underated and it's sad.

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    • charli.m
      5 years ago

      This.

      My money is on this being a troll post, though. Sounds like someone just trying to stir shit up.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago

        I can assure you neither is true. Just a man who feels like he got treated unfairly and did not have his true day in court.

        But believe what you want, whatever I say will probably not change your mind.

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  • Columbusbiguy
    5 years ago

    Yep, you got hosed. Get a better lawyer next time.

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  • BlindSpot
    5 years ago

    My uncle's wife cheated on him. She's a bitch who used to abuse my little cousin. Currently she has filed for divorce to be with her equally abusive lover and has got her lawyers to drain him of all the money he has, even though she has caused so much of chaos in his life as well my cousin's...he actually fell severely ill and the doctor said he was experiencing severe emotional stress :(

    The law nowadays is not on the side of the oppressed. It was created to control, and keep the rich richer and the poor and down-trodden at bay.

    Just make sure whatever happens you give your kids the love they deserve. It's something that will affect them for the rest of their lives.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Thanks. I think the courts are just still slanted toward thst way of thinking without looking at the facts. I do not ever talk about their mom negatively in front of them, it judt puts them in a bad position.

      Thanks for your input.

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