Unfortunately trans people have to pee and stuff :0
If it's like a changing room i would understand that you might feel uncomfortable by it, the same way that trans person might feel uncomfortable on the changing room they don't identify with. What i would suggest in that case would be, making a third changing room, a genderneutral one that anyone can use at any moment and i think everyone would feel more comfortable that way.The bathroom stuff is something i don't understand still. Like, there are bathroom cubicles inside the bathroom, no one ever whips their genitalia out when they go to pee, specially trans people bc they can get assaulted for being there.
They just want to pee bro, is not a big deal. They do their bussiness in the cubicle and u don't have to see a thing i promise.I sometimes am more concerned about the genitalia police, like why do u care so much about people's private parts??? I am more uncomfortable sharing a bathroom with someone who cares so much about my genitals u know. It's creepy.And if the issue you have with bathrooms is that, men can "dress up and pretend to be women" so they can spy on women, that's not tran's people's fault. That's predatory men's fault. Let's not get them mixed up. And if a man wants to be a perv he is going to be a perv regardless of who uses the bathroom. They don't care.It's not that they interfere in your life, we just live in the same planet earth and breathe the same air, is difficult to not interfere in no ones life if u are alive u know, since we live in society. Entering a bathroom to pee is not interfering in your life, is having a human necessity and taking care of it.
Trans people usually don't go to bathrooms bc they get so terrorized by cis people in them they prefer to hold it in.
How would u feel if just did not let you pee one day, just bc. Idk it's weird.And about the rest of the community, we are aware that there are some transphobe among us. Is not a secret. Trans people are the ones who get discriminated the most.What i would say is, it's okay to have a genital preference. If u only like one thing and not the other it's okay. And trans people understand that. If you tell them you won't date them bc you have a genital preference, if you tell them that you respect their identity but don't want to date them i promise, trans people understand, and they move on. They won't force u to date them.
HOWEVER, if that trans person has fully transitioned (medical transition, operations and all that stuff) and you refuse to date them solely bc of the fact that they are trans, that is transphobic, bc it's not a genital preference.
Hope that cleared things out.
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Unfortunately trans people have to pee and stuff :0
If it's like a changing room i would understand that you might feel uncomfortable by it, the same way that trans person might feel uncomfortable on the changing room they don't identify with. What i would suggest in that case would be, making a third changing room, a genderneutral one that anyone can use at any moment and i think everyone would feel more comfortable that way.The bathroom stuff is something i don't understand still. Like, there are bathroom cubicles inside the bathroom, no one ever whips their genitalia out when they go to pee, specially trans people bc they can get assaulted for being there.
They just want to pee bro, is not a big deal. They do their bussiness in the cubicle and u don't have to see a thing i promise.I sometimes am more concerned about the genitalia police, like why do u care so much about people's private parts??? I am more uncomfortable sharing a bathroom with someone who cares so much about my genitals u know. It's creepy.And if the issue you have with bathrooms is that, men can "dress up and pretend to be women" so they can spy on women, that's not tran's people's fault. That's predatory men's fault. Let's not get them mixed up. And if a man wants to be a perv he is going to be a perv regardless of who uses the bathroom. They don't care.It's not that they interfere in your life, we just live in the same planet earth and breathe the same air, is difficult to not interfere in no ones life if u are alive u know, since we live in society. Entering a bathroom to pee is not interfering in your life, is having a human necessity and taking care of it.
Trans people usually don't go to bathrooms bc they get so terrorized by cis people in them they prefer to hold it in.
How would u feel if just did not let you pee one day, just bc. Idk it's weird.And about the rest of the community, we are aware that there are some transphobe among us. Is not a secret. Trans people are the ones who get discriminated the most.What i would say is, it's okay to have a genital preference. If u only like one thing and not the other it's okay. And trans people understand that. If you tell them you won't date them bc you have a genital preference, if you tell them that you respect their identity but don't want to date them i promise, trans people understand, and they move on. They won't force u to date them.
HOWEVER, if that trans person has fully transitioned (medical transition, operations and all that stuff) and you refuse to date them solely bc of the fact that they are trans, that is transphobic, bc it's not a genital preference.
Hope that cleared things out.