"Forced onto them" what does that mean? We just want to live our lives to the fullest, that's it.
What u are saying, basically, is
"I don't care if u are this way but don't show it cause it makes me uncomfortable"
That's not accepting, that's pushing people down and make them fit into a norm YOU chose bc it's more comfortable for you to just not see it.
We are not pushing, we are just living. Of course we want to change the world so we can feel more welcome in it. We have lived for centuries in a world that doesn't want us, doesn't like us and wants us to shut up and comply. It's not nice.Also, something i have noticed is that, you all see the lgbtq as this huge campaign that wants you to change your lifestyle completely and pressure u to fit into a norm you are not comfortable with.That's literally what you guys are doing. It's the same, what you are accusing us to do, is what you guys have been doing to us.The difference is that we, i swear to god i am talking as an lgbtq person, don't want you to change the way you live. You are cis? Then be cis! You are straight? Then be straight! I promise we don't give a fuck, fr. We Just want people to treat us with respect and have the same rights. No one is gonna force u to be a gender you are not, no one is gonna force you to marry someone you don't love.But that's what we have been forced to do all this time, and now that we don't look down and let it happen, it feels threatening for u, but i promise no one wants to hurt other people less than we do. We just want peace.
About the doctor. It's not the first time they have done the surgeries poorly. We know they won't look the same, i am not talking about that. I'm talking about top surgery done wrong in purpose, the chest getting infected bc they didn't remove all the tissue on purpose, leaving big scars that weren't necessary at all, nipples in the wrong place, infections and bleeding.
If it was a one time thing i could pass it as a mistake, but they have done it plenty of times. Even the trans organization in my country are now warning young trans people to go to a different doctor, because they always fuck up on purpose. It was not an accident.
I don't know what country you are in but I know in mine there's always been the affordability issue for a lot of trans people (mostly before the current visibility of LGBTQIA+ community and NGOs) so they'd end up getting underground industrial-grade silicone injections and implants that naturally botched the whole job. Anyway, I know it's not the point of the whole post but I like your arguments. Keep on fighting - bah, it's so sad that there's has to be a "fight"...
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"Forced onto them" what does that mean? We just want to live our lives to the fullest, that's it.
What u are saying, basically, is
"I don't care if u are this way but don't show it cause it makes me uncomfortable"
That's not accepting, that's pushing people down and make them fit into a norm YOU chose bc it's more comfortable for you to just not see it.
We are not pushing, we are just living. Of course we want to change the world so we can feel more welcome in it. We have lived for centuries in a world that doesn't want us, doesn't like us and wants us to shut up and comply. It's not nice.Also, something i have noticed is that, you all see the lgbtq as this huge campaign that wants you to change your lifestyle completely and pressure u to fit into a norm you are not comfortable with.That's literally what you guys are doing. It's the same, what you are accusing us to do, is what you guys have been doing to us.The difference is that we, i swear to god i am talking as an lgbtq person, don't want you to change the way you live. You are cis? Then be cis! You are straight? Then be straight! I promise we don't give a fuck, fr. We Just want people to treat us with respect and have the same rights. No one is gonna force u to be a gender you are not, no one is gonna force you to marry someone you don't love.But that's what we have been forced to do all this time, and now that we don't look down and let it happen, it feels threatening for u, but i promise no one wants to hurt other people less than we do. We just want peace.
About the doctor. It's not the first time they have done the surgeries poorly. We know they won't look the same, i am not talking about that. I'm talking about top surgery done wrong in purpose, the chest getting infected bc they didn't remove all the tissue on purpose, leaving big scars that weren't necessary at all, nipples in the wrong place, infections and bleeding.
If it was a one time thing i could pass it as a mistake, but they have done it plenty of times. Even the trans organization in my country are now warning young trans people to go to a different doctor, because they always fuck up on purpose. It was not an accident.
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I don't know what country you are in but I know in mine there's always been the affordability issue for a lot of trans people (mostly before the current visibility of LGBTQIA+ community and NGOs) so they'd end up getting underground industrial-grade silicone injections and implants that naturally botched the whole job. Anyway, I know it's not the point of the whole post but I like your arguments. Keep on fighting - bah, it's so sad that there's has to be a "fight"...