Why is he still hanging around when shes not putting out

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My sister calls this guy her "bf" when they're not even official or fucking. He hangs in there for what? Hes already knocked up a chick and isnt even in his child's life hardly. Why hasn't he ditched yet when hes getting no sexual gratification? I do know hes sweet talking her (grooming her) just so he can win and get his way like a piece of shit he is. Its disgusting and I already have spoken to my sister about everything and shes being highly immature.

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IrishPotato

5 years ago

First, he has a kid and how he handles that is his business, not yours.

Second, you sound really fucking bitter. Maybe they're taking it slow? Maybe they just like each other's company? You know, like regular functioning adults do.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  No guy takes things slow in today's world pal
  
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  - IrishPotato
    
    5 years ago
    
    Yes, they do.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      No
      
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      - IrishPotato
        
        5 years ago
        
        Just because you're trash doesn't mean the rest or the world is.
        
        I am literally observing it by looking at how I treat women and how a lot of people I know do. You're saying reality is basically false then?
        
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        5 years ago
        
        Why am I trash? Did I say I was a male
        
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bigbudchonga

5 years ago

Honestly, you sound a bit bitter. Why do you dislike him so much? He's probably still hanging round because he actually likes your sister, and wants her company for more than just sex.

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  5 years ago
  
  Doubt it
  
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SmokeEverything

5 years ago

So you dont think a guy and a girl can just like get along and enjoy each others company?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Nope
  
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  - IrishPotato
    
    5 years ago
    
    Then you're very naive.
    
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      5 years ago
      
      You're ignorant
      
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    - LornaMae
      
      5 years ago
      
      What a beautiful euphemism for troll!
      
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      - IrishPotato
        
        5 years ago
        
        Or that. I think both.
        
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        5 years ago
        
        The only trolls are yall who are ignorant
        
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leggs91200

5 years ago

He probably does not want another kid so if she is not giving up the poon snatch, he may not really care.

You see, young people, once that child arrives, you start to understand the consequences of having sex. Suddenly it isn't as big a priority.

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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

How is she being immature?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  How does this answer my question
  
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  - 309uf2o38yf
    
    5 years ago
    
    Why are you being hostile? She's trying to help. This user always gives useful advice.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      Why are you backing her up? Your username looks like a big red flag to me.
      
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      - 309uf2o38yf
        
        5 years ago
        
        I thought it looks more like a yellow caterpillar from far away with my glasses off
        
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      - LornaMae
        
        5 years ago
        
        Wut? Her username is one of the best here and she also always gives either great advice or makes a funny joke.
        
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        charli.m
        
        5 years ago
        
        This OP reminds me of the lunatic catfishing her friend's boyfriend...
        
        Troll trying to branch out, almost as badly as pumpkin spice idiot?
        
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Anonymous Post Author

5 years ago

Shut the f up

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Anonymous Post Author

5 years ago

It is my business and none of yours

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Anonnet

5 years ago

My answer based on what you wrote is that they're just friends, but I think we're missing a few details here.

He already has a kid? The chick he knocked up isn't your sister, right? What happened to the other girl? Does he call her his girlfriend, or is it just her and it's more of a friendship thing for him? Is there a particular reason why your sister isn't putting out for him? What is he "grooming" her for if they're not official? Season tickets?

I can only assume the dude looks so sleazy that the thought of him talking to a girl for non-sex reasons is completely ridiculous.
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Thats right, he knocked up a chick who's far away now. I think hes a weirdo and says bs like oh cant wait to hang out wih my gf. Well idk, I dont know why? Grooming her for sex obviously. Why else would he be acting so fake and kind.
  No way, he doenst look sleavy at all. Hes average af and definitely not attractive
  
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  - Anonnet
    
    5 years ago
    
    It sounds like a regular relationship, sans sex. I'm kind of suspicious about this previous relationship he had. They might not be doing it because he doesn't want it, rather than your sister "not putting out", but I wouldn't know.
    
    I did just realize something, though. I was about to call you overprotective, but it sounds like you're mad because your sister ISN'T having sex with this guy.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      Exactly why I'm over protective
      
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  - IrishPotato
    
    5 years ago
    
    Grooming her for se- what in the world...
    
    You're dillusional. Leave them alone, they're enjoying each other's company and what they do is none of your business.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      It is my business, when it comes to family it's my business. You're lucky I shared info with you on here because really, it's none of your buisness. Also, it's none of your buisness to tell me what to do.
      
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      - NoLifer
        
        5 years ago
        
        Just becuase you are a pig to women doesn't mean everyone is obligated to be. Id be happy he isn't just using her for sex unless you secretly are jealous and secretly want to fuck her.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        5 years ago
        
        Hey punk! Assuming my sex is sexist
        
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        IrishPotato
        
        5 years ago
        
        Exactly this. OP is jealous.
        
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        5 years ago
        
        All guys want sex and he will be sweet talking her to get just that
        
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Zetta_2000

5 years ago

Probably because he's been manipulated by her into thinking he's going to get some eventually. I don't think he's actually planning or grooming anything, just chasing a fruitless goal for sex.

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Anonymous Post Author

5 years ago

Can anyone actually answer my question?

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- bitchesaintshit
  
  5 years ago
  
  Go fuck yourself, gay cunt.
  
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    5 years ago
    
    Lol someone sounds a little grumpy
    
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