I'm not quite sure how you could look like both of those people at the same time. But anyway, it's natural for him to do that and it's natural for you to feel this way about it.
Attraction is a wave, not an arrow - it may hit some people more than others, but it's never really singular. I'm sure you find other people attractive, whether they're celebrities, people you know, or people you see on the street. What's important is that one doesn't act upon these impulses. But it's understandable for you to feel this way; women tend to give higher significance to emotional (as opposed to physical) cheating.
That being said, like all relationship problems, the best course of action is to calmly communicate with your partner.
haha i really don't know either. this might sound weird but i dont really find other guys attractive anymore or if i do see one that looks a lil better than others i dnt take a second look like i use to..i just dnt care anymore.
Why in the hell do i care about this?
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I'm not quite sure how you could look like both of those people at the same time. But anyway, it's natural for him to do that and it's natural for you to feel this way about it.
Attraction is a wave, not an arrow - it may hit some people more than others, but it's never really singular. I'm sure you find other people attractive, whether they're celebrities, people you know, or people you see on the street. What's important is that one doesn't act upon these impulses. But it's understandable for you to feel this way; women tend to give higher significance to emotional (as opposed to physical) cheating.
That being said, like all relationship problems, the best course of action is to calmly communicate with your partner.
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haha i really don't know either. this might sound weird but i dont really find other guys attractive anymore or if i do see one that looks a lil better than others i dnt take a second look like i use to..i just dnt care anymore.