yes you are very right there,but considering the much bigger picture which there certainly is,
No alive siblings,no other family members willing to help in any way at all,even though there were, and still are plenty family around,
The choices my parents had many times,they choose to sit and do nothing at all towards there pending old age,instead out in the evenings playing bingo,off on holidays
I my self doing what I could over time to suggest persude them to come overseas to where I was living happyly,providing them with so much imformation as to where they could live,we could sell our property and buy something with an attatched unit for them to live near and we could take care of them,they chose to stay living in a house that was never going to be suitable for old age and alziemers,
It was I who came here 4 years ago and waded through all the mess and doctors hospitals,social welfare,finances,trying to arrange power of attourney to make it better for me to deal with everything,with a man who is arrogant and thinks I am stupid.
I gave up a good little buisness I had,my husband his job,
A mother calling me and crying ,when are you coming,are you coming ,I can,t manage,me trying to deal with all the emotions that go with all that,anxiety,panic attacks,what to do,trying to hold my life together in some way shape or form.
In the end it all got that much for me being thousands of miles away it was a decision,yes our decision to give up our life,put all our belongings in storage and come here,it was easier to go insane here than at home.
Try having to put your old lovely dog to sleep who you loved so much as a child,who you had had for 15 years,and taking her to the vets and looking into her eyes knowing she was not coming home,our hearts were broken,but they got what they wanted,believe me there is more where this comes from,much more.
I am so sorry to say all this but our hearts are broken and we are sad and just want to go home,,,
why I hate my mother
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yes you are very right there,but considering the much bigger picture which there certainly is,
No alive siblings,no other family members willing to help in any way at all,even though there were, and still are plenty family around,
The choices my parents had many times,they choose to sit and do nothing at all towards there pending old age,instead out in the evenings playing bingo,off on holidays
I my self doing what I could over time to suggest persude them to come overseas to where I was living happyly,providing them with so much imformation as to where they could live,we could sell our property and buy something with an attatched unit for them to live near and we could take care of them,they chose to stay living in a house that was never going to be suitable for old age and alziemers,
It was I who came here 4 years ago and waded through all the mess and doctors hospitals,social welfare,finances,trying to arrange power of attourney to make it better for me to deal with everything,with a man who is arrogant and thinks I am stupid.
I gave up a good little buisness I had,my husband his job,
A mother calling me and crying ,when are you coming,are you coming ,I can,t manage,me trying to deal with all the emotions that go with all that,anxiety,panic attacks,what to do,trying to hold my life together in some way shape or form.
In the end it all got that much for me being thousands of miles away it was a decision,yes our decision to give up our life,put all our belongings in storage and come here,it was easier to go insane here than at home.
Try having to put your old lovely dog to sleep who you loved so much as a child,who you had had for 15 years,and taking her to the vets and looking into her eyes knowing she was not coming home,our hearts were broken,but they got what they wanted,believe me there is more where this comes from,much more.
I am so sorry to say all this but our hearts are broken and we are sad and just want to go home,,,